Shanaya had always been a very kind girl, she was praised for being polite and always understanding with them. Her extroverted nature had gotten her a lot of friends and she was always complimented by aunties about how pretty she was! While she hung out with other people, she liked being around her friend Drisha the most! Somehow she just felt at ease with Drisha, she didn’t have to go out of her way to be reserved and well-mannered all the time, she could speak the way she wanted without feeling judged. She always felt how people, although they flocked to her at any given opportunity, were not being honest with her. One day she tested this out and asked her friends if it was ok for her to ghost this guy who she had just started talking to. “I mean what’s the issue, if you don’t like talking to him then don’t these guys just want to talk to pretty girls, I’m sure it’s fine” her friends laughed. She asked the same thing to others and met with similar answers. She had a sinking feeling in the gut and found herself rushing to Drisha. What she had just realized her intuition was true. Drisha had a similar experience, but the guy was being dismissive of her thoughts and feelings. The reason why Shanaya knew they were biased was because the same ones had said, “She should be glad at least someone is giving her attention, she’s acting so entitled”. What is Pretty Privilege?This term is used to describe a person who has an advantage in the social aspect of life because of their good looks. Often these people are preferred over others just because they are pleasing to look at and it can manifest in many different ways like career advantages, they may receive preferential treatment in job interviews, promotions and performance evaluations. It also makes people give them more leniency and is a great confidence booster. While all this may seem very positive for them and unfair to others, there is a flip side to every coin! It's important to note that while pretty privilege can offer certain advantages, it's not a universal experience. Many factors, including cultural norms, individual personality, and socioeconomic status, can influence how much privilege someone experiences. Additionally, it's crucial to recognize that beauty standards are subjective and constantly evolving. Unfairness of Pretty PrivilegeWhile it may seem like a positive experience, there are negative effects that need to be considered. While there are advantages, there are also unique challenges and pressures. Unrealistic ExpectationsAttractive people may face unrealistic expectations in relationships, friendships, and professional settings. They are always acting as the glue holding things together, not letting anyone feel left out, or feeling bad. There can be pressure to always look perfect and maintain a certain image. Shallow RelationshipsWhen you have people flocking to your side because of your looks constantly, it is difficult to find a genuine friend. Some people may only be interested in their physical appearance, leading to superficial relationships that lack depth. These are based just on how pretty they all look together and how aesthetic they look. Stereotyping and DiscriminationThere is still a running stereotype that we see in movies which is the ‘Young Dumb Blonde’, basically a good-looking yet dumb girl. Attractive people may be stereotyped as shallow, vain, or incompetent. They may face discrimination in certain situations, such as job interviews or academic settings. Even if they got in fairly, people would always suspect that they got in just because of their looks. Mental Health StrugglesThe constant pressure to maintain their appearance and live up to societal expectations can lead to anxiety, depression, and body image issues. They may develop a sense of loneliness as there is no one they can speak to or relate their issues with.