In 2022, beloved actor Bruce Willis was diagnosed with frontotemporal dementia, a heartbreaking turn that deeply impacted not only him but his whole family. Although the news left fans around the world in shock, it was actually his wife, Emma Heming Willis, who carried the emotional brunt of the diagnosis in the moment. At the Women's Alzheimer's Movement Forum in Las Vegas last month, Emma spoke for the first time about the emotional damage done by that experience and the unseen toll of caregiving—one that millions of people worldwide quietly experience daily.
Emma Heming Willis recalled the day Bruce was formally diagnosed with dementia as one that made her feel "lost, isolated and afraid."
"On the day Bruce got his diagnosis, we walked out of the doctor's office with a pamphlet and an empty goodbye. No plan, no guidance, no hope, just shock," she explained in front of a packed auditorium, People reported.
In one instant, the family's future disappeared. The Oscar-winning actor, famous for his quick wit and performances in Die Hard and The Sixth Sense, would be leaving his career behind. Emma found herself thrust into a whole new role of full-time caregiver at the same time.
She continued to explain, "I found myself having to keep my family intact, raise our two small girls, and tend to the man that I love while dealing with an illness I hardly knew anything about."
Emma's emotional candor resonated with hundreds of families who have received similar diagnoses and encouraged her to author a book, The Unexpected Journey, scheduled for publication in September. In Emma's words, "This is the book I hope will assist the next caregiver. It is packed with encouragement, wisdom, and the encouragement necessary to walk this path.
Frontotemporal dementia is a less prevalent type of dementia that mainly occurs in the frontal and temporal lobes of the brain. It tends to affect behavior, personality, language, and movement more than memory, particularly in its initial stages.
In contrast to Alzheimer's, which generally strikes older individuals, FTD can hit at an earlier age—sometimes as young as 40. The symptoms can range from changes in personality, emotional flatness, or the inability to show empathy to impulsiveness, so it is especially hard for spouses and children to cope.
Emma's case illustrates how abrupt and disrupting this diagnosis can be—not only for the patient but for caregivers as well.
Whereas Bruce Willis' diagnosis hit global headlines, the mental toll taken by Emma, his caregiver, was largely in the background—until she decided to come forward.
Caregiving is a respectable position, but it's also a challenging and thankless one. For those who are caring for loved ones with dementia or other chronic illnesses, the stress of "keeping it all together" can result in a condition called caregiver burnout.
"Caring for someone is the most intimate and demanding work of love," Emma explained, "but when you're not noticed or supported, it begins to undermine your health—mentally and physically."
Caregiver burnout is a condition of emotional, physical, and mental weariness resulting from long-term and excessive caregiving demands. It tends to lead to feelings of hopelessness, loneliness, and guilt—and is worsened when caregivers fail to prioritize their own health and well-being.
In the United States alone, over 53 million individuals act as unpaid caregivers, reports the National Alliance for Caregiving. While they bear a massive burden, too many of them are without access to support structures or mental health resources.
If you are caring for a loved one—particularly someone with a degenerative condition such as dementia—it's important to look for these early warning signs of burnout:
Chronic fatigue: Being physically and emotionally drained, even after rest or sleep.
Lack of interest in hobbies: Avoiding activities and passions you used to enjoy.
Social withdrawal: Steering clear of friends and family out of exhaustion or feelings of being overwhelmed.
Increased irritability: Becoming angry or resentful with the person you're caring for, or blowing up over trivial inconveniences.
Illness: Persistent headaches, gastrointestinal problems, weakened immune system, or getting chronic illnesses.
Sleep disturbances: Waking up often, insomnia, or sleeping too much.
Emotional numbing or persistent crying: Feeling of being trapped without relief in sight, along with emotional numbing or excessive crying.
Caregiver burnout isn't just hard on the caregiver—it's also destructive to the quality of care received. Burned out and frazzled, it becomes more difficult to bring compassion, patience, and focus to caring for someone with intricate needs.
If left unaddressed, burnout can create depression, anxiety disorders, and even physical breakdown, which is why it is so important to get help before getting to a point of crisis.
Emma Heming Willis's openness to talk about her own challenges brings light to a larger social problem: the invisibility and unavailability of caregiver resources.
Her work strives to make discussion of caregiver mental health common and give others the tools she wishes someone had given her when Bruce was initially diagnosed. "What I needed that day wasn't a pamphlet," she said to the crowd. "I needed someone to look me in the eye and tell me, 'This feels impossible right now, but you will find your footing.'"
To assist in preventing or coping with caregiver burnout, professionals suggest:
Pursuing professional help: Counseling or therapy can be a lifesaver.
Regular breaks: Respite care programs or a reliable family member can take over.
Support groups: Talking with others who experience the same situation can soften the sense of loneliness.
Taking care of your own health: Healthy meals, exercise, and routine check-ups.
Establishing boundaries: Saying no is acceptable, and asking for assistance is okay.
As the global population ages and the prevalence of neurodegenerative diseases grows, it’s more important than ever to champion and protect those who give so selflessly.
Caregiving can start as a labor of love—but it needs to be valued, respected, and maintained by community, healthcare systems, and society as a whole.
While there's been uncertainty around the constantly shifting COVID-19 vaccine recommendations and guidelines in the United States, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has provided clarification, something that forcefully contradicts recently expressed views by Health and Human Services (HHS) Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. In a development that emphasizes increasing frictions between political figures and federal health agencies, the CDC has begun recommending COVID-19 vaccination for children between six months and 17 years old, but only in consultation with a health care provider. This nuanced stance is part of a larger shift toward collaborative clinical decision-making for pediatric vaccinations, as much as it is impeded by misinformation and policy ambivalence on public awareness.
Last week, Robert F. Kennedy Jr., known for his controversial views on vaccines, announced through a video posted on X (formerly Twitter) that the federal government was no longer advising COVID-19 shots for healthy children or pregnant women. Yet, the CDC's new vaccination schedule, published online shortly later, flatly contradicts Kennedy's assertion.
The CDC then indicates that otherwise healthy children can still get the COVID vaccine, but the healthcare provider's clinical judgment and personal circumstances and preference should inform this decision. For many, this is a big reversal from previous recommendations that highly encouraged COVID vaccinations in children and pregnant women without condition.
The CDC's advice comes as Kennedy, temporarily on leave from the anti-vaccination group Children's Health Defense, remains to spread uncertainty regarding vaccine effectiveness and safety. While stating he only opposes vaccine mandates in favor of vaccine choice, not across-the-board opposition, Kennedy has repeatedly made false public claims that vaccines, including the COVID-19 vaccines, are associated with autism, claims refuted by decades of science.
Public health professionals have said the CDC's shift toward shared clinical decision-making provides more room for flexibility, enabling families and providers to partner together based on individual health histories and risks.
This type of recommendation is good in theory but difficult to make in practice. Health insurance does not always cover vaccines under shared decision-making provisions. Look for inconsistency in coverage, prior authorization, and out-of-pocket expenses, all of which will discourage vaccination.
The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) was cautiously optimistic about the CDC's updated guidelines, commending the maintenance of access but criticizing the "deeply flawed process" that resulted in the change in policy. AAP President Susan Kressly noted continued concerns regarding the manner in which changes are communicated by federal agencies, cautioning that inconsistent messaging would compromise the nation's immunization infrastructure.
The new CDC vaccination schedule significantly does not include any special recommendation for healthy pregnant women, a fact Kennedy utilized in his video. Nonetheless, leading medical associations and professionals have quickly refuted any implication that COVID-19 vaccines are unsafe or unnecessary for pregnant women.
Dr. Steven J. Fleischman, president of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), highlighted, "Even after the recommendation shift from HHS, the science remains unchanged. COVID infection during pregnancy can cause severe disability, stillbirth, and maternal death. The vaccine is safe and effective during pregnancy."
Medical research repeatedly demonstrates pregnant women are at increased risk of severe COVID illness. Not only does vaccination lower hospitalization and death rates, it provides newborns with passive immunity through maternal antibodies. The lack of explicit guidance on the new CDC website has created concerns among advocates for maternal health, as they worry access and coverage will decrease without robust federal leadership.
Kennedy's framing of the issue is in terms of personal choice and informed decision. He has advocated for complete openness and more individual control over vaccine choices, saying, "People ought to have choice and ought to be informed by the best information."
But public health professionals caution that such rhetoric overlooks the collective aspect of immunization. Vaccines are only highly effective when they are given to large numbers of people, inducing "herd immunity" that shields those with weakened immune systems who cannot safely take vaccines themselves. Declining uptake jeopardizes this protection and can cause increased risks of subsequent outbreaks.
Vaccination choices don't impact people individually, they impact public safety. When more people don't vaccinate, everyone is more at risk, particularly young children and those who are immunocompromised.
As a result of these policy changes, access to care continues to be a priority. Insurers might, in response to the CDC's more permissive suggestion, opt to cut or curtail pediatric COVID vaccine coverage. In the absence of a specific directive, families might incur surprise costs or logistics issues, another barrier in an already complicated health system.
In addition, the FDA's proposed fall guidance means that new COVID boosters will only be licensed to high-risk individuals, including those over 65 or with serious comorbidities. The FDA has also asked vaccine manufacturers to conduct new, large-scale studies to affirm on-going safety and need—potentially postponing access for others.
This regulatory roadblock also adds to the vaccination picture for families attempting to make the most informed decisions with incomplete data and shifting guidelines.
As the world has learned to live with COVID-19, public health leaders stress that the key to retaining public trust is clear, consistent messaging. The CDC's confusing and incomplete website postings at last look on Friday, some pages still had outdated advice suggesting COVID vaccination for pregnant women have only fueled public doubts.
"Families have the right to transparency, but also to clarity," added Kressly of the AAP. "At the moment, too much confusion is present when firm guidance is needed."
An August report from CDC highlighted the life-saving power of childhood vaccination programs, estimating that between 1994 and 2023 they had prevented over 500 million illness cases, 32 million hospitalizations, and 1.1 million deaths. As vaccine hesitancy intensifies and policy shifts send mixed messages, experts worry these hard-won gains could be threatened.
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Colon cancer ranks among the most common cancers globally, yet it often slips under the radar due to its subtle symptoms. “It’s a cancer that can creep in quietly, and by the time it's diagnosed, it may already be at an advanced stage,” says Dr Sajjan Rajpurohit, Medical Oncology at BLK-Max Super Speciality Hospital. Early detection, he stresses, is the most powerful tool in improving survival rates.
Colon cancer rarely announces its presence with dramatic symptoms. More often, it whispers — through changes in bowel habits, subtle abdominal discomfort, or unexplained weight loss.
Some of the most commonly missed early signs include:
“These symptoms are frequently brushed aside or self-diagnosed,” notes Dr Rajpurohit. “There’s a tendency to blame food, stress, or lifestyle rather than consider a deeper issue.”
According to Dr Rajpurohit, “Blood in the stool is one of the most common and concerning signs. While it might be due to hemorrhoids or fissures, it’s important not to assume. A proper evaluation is critical.”
Ignoring such a red flag delays diagnosis and drastically reduces treatment success rates. A timely visit to a healthcare provider can change outcomes.
Persistent changes in bowel habits, especially if they last more than a few days, must be taken seriously. Narrow or ribbon-shaped stools may indicate a tumor partially blocking the colon. “Changes in stool shape, frequency, or associated pain should raise suspicion,” Dr Rajpurohit explains.
Social stigma and discomfort around discussing bowel habits further contribute to delay. “It’s high time we normalise conversations about gut health,” he adds.
A recent international study presented at the American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO) highlighted a groundbreaking revelation — regular exercise post-treatment for colon cancer patients significantly reduces recurrence and boosts survival.
Dr Rajpurohit agrees: “This changes how we approach post-treatment care. Exercise isn’t just about fitness; it’s about survival. Oncologists must now prescribe movement as a form of medicine.”
Colon cancer isn’t just a disease to treat — it’s one we can often prevent. The focus, says Dr Rajpurohit, should be on public education around:
“We must push for more awareness campaigns. Prevention is within reach, but people need the right information,” he stresses.
Colon cancer is beatable — but only if people are aware of the risks and act early. As Dr Rajpurohit puts it, “Our job is not just to treat cancer but to educate, prevent, and empower. A healthy lifestyle, awareness, and regular screenings can save lives. The earlier we talk about it, the better we fight it.”
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Pregnancy is a critical period, not just for the physical development of the baby but also for laying the foundation of their long-term health. A new study released recently in BMJ Medicine establishes a strong link between maternal obesity in pregnancy and a child's elevated risk of being hospitalized for severe infection. The results are dramatic: children born to severely obese mothers are 41% more likely to be hospitalized for infections during their first year of life. That jumps to 53% between the ages of 5 and 15. These data put in sharp relief the imperative to learn more about how the weight of the mother might influence the immunity and health of subsequent generations.
Conducted by researchers at the University of Oxford, the longitudinal study tracked 9,540 births in Bradford, U.K., between 2007 and 2010. Their goal: to investigate long-term health outcomes in children born to overweight or obese mothers. More than half of the mothers in the study approximately 56% were found to be overweight or obese at the time of their pregnancy.
Infants of mothers with a BMI of 35 or more were especially at risk. The excess risk of infection was not entirely accounted for by the most frequent pregnancy complications of obesity, such as pre-term birth, which only explained 7% of the association. Other factors, including cesarean section (21%) and obesity in childhood at age 4 or 5 (26%), explained more of the excess risk.
Scientists suspect that something more is going on—perhaps related to how obesity in pregnancy might change a child's inflammatory system, immune system maturation, gut microbiota, or even gene expression, predisposing them to viral respiratory, gastrointestinal, and multisystem infections.
Infections were the leading cause of unnecessary hospital visits among the children in the study. Although infection in early childhood is usually viewed as a normal component of immune system maturation, the data indicates that children born to mothers with severe obesity were much more likely to experience infection that necessitated medical care.
These were not wimpy colds or sniffles—the admissions were for serious respiratory ailments, tummy bugs, and occasionally, intricate viral infections in multiple organ systems. The ramifications are two-fold: first, health costs and hospital capacity are impacted; second, children might suffer suboptimal health and interrupted development in early life.
Experts concur that the ideal window for intervention is before conception. Shedding even a moderate level of weight pre-pregnancy can greatly eliminate the chances of complications for both the mother and the child.
When a woman has a healthy body weight before pregnancy, she is laying the foundation for a healthier pregnancy, easier birth, and greater immunity in her child," says Victoria Coathup, lead author of the study and an Oxford epidemiologist.
Pregnancy has been termed a "teachable moment," with mothers being more receptive to adopting sustainable lifestyle modifications. Emphasis on diet, exercise, and metabolic well-being prior to conception can prove to have a greater impact than reactive intervention during or following pregnancy.
Tracking weight gain in pregnancy is equally crucial as achieving a healthy weight prior to pregnancy. During the initial prenatal visit, providers generally compute BMI and give recommendations for weight gain. Weighing regularly and checking fetal growth at future visits ensures both mother and baby remain on a healthy path.
Notably, not all departures from weight gain guidelines are troublesome. In the case of a pregnant woman who gains less than desired but whose fetus is growing well, rigid efforts to "catch up" are not always required. Attention should be directed toward nutrient-rich foods, rather than calorie consumption.
Obesity not only affects the health of the baby—it also makes labor and delivery more difficult. Overweight and obese women tend to have longer labors, can experience difficulties with fetal monitoring, and are more likely to need a cesarean section.
Cesarean sections in obese women also have their risks: infections, excessive blood loss, and prolonged recovery times. Preventive measures such as compression devices to help prevent blood clot formation and planned pain management programs can alleviate these issues. However, being a healthy weight prior to conception continues to be the best risk reduction measure.
The message is not one of stigmatizing pregnancy weight but one of welcoming evidence-based practices that support maternal and infant health. From preconception education and prenatal nutrition counseling to lifestyle support postpartum, interventions need to be holistic and accessible.
Nutritionists advise emphasizing whole foods, lean protein, complex carbohydrates, and healthy fats, and exercising regularly, moderately. Support systems clinical and emotional alike help to maintain these habits throughout pregnancy and thereafter.
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