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Ishita Roy

Perimenopause Isn’t Just Hot Flashes, Doctors Explain the Lesser-Known Signs

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Many in their late 30s and early 40s find themselves Googling weird stuff, including 'why am I having a tingling feelin in my arm?' 'why do I feel like something is brushing across my arm?', and more. This is what many call a phantom feeling arm, which means there is nothing actually tickling, but you feel it anyway. Medically, it is known as paresthesia, a tingling feeling or numb sensation, usually what people refer to as the pins and needles sensation. This is caused by temporary pressure on a nerve or any underlying nerve damage issue. 

If you look up anything like that, many women claimed, it instantly shows: <span>perimenopause</span>. 

Despite an increased awareness around it, peri<span>menopause</span> and menopause still remain a taboo. In a survey, it was found that 54 per cent of women were concerned about the uncertainty they are about to face in their perimenopause and menopause period.

Menopause is not just hot flashes, it is much more than that. Dr Mahima Gulati, an endocrinologist at UConn Health points out symptoms like gaining weight despite "doing everything right", brain fog, aching joints, sleepless nights, exhausting days, and depleted energy. She says "These symptoms are real. This is not something women are imagining, and it is not just aging. There are real biological changes happening, and women deserve evidence based care and support as they move through them."

<h2>What Can Help Women Dealing With Menopause and Perimenopause?</h2>

Before going into the solution, let us first understand what these term really mean. 

Perimenopause: It is the period when a menstruator transitions to menopause, or when the period stops permanently. This phase is characterized by fluctuating hormone levels, irregular periods, which could be shorter, longer, heavier, or lighter, hot flashes, sleep problems and mood changes. 

Menopause: This is the natural, permanent end of menstruation defined as 12 consecutive months without a period. This typically occurs between ages 45 to 55. 

<h2>What Can Help In Menopause And Perimenopause?</h2>

“For women to sit in a room and realize they are not alone is incredibly therapeutic. Connection itself reduces the burden of chronic conditions,” points out Dr Gulati. 

The doctor points out that women often learn from each others’ experience and this is why social connections are extremely important in this time. 

Sleep problems are one of the most common and exhausting symptoms of perimenopause and menopause. Hormonal changes can disrupt deep sleep, causing women to wake up in the early hours, deal with night sweats, and struggle to fall back asleep. When this happens regularly, it leads to severe energy drain, not just tiredness.

To improve sleep, Gulati focuses on simple, practical habits. These include keeping a regular sleep schedule, avoiding caffeine and alcohol in the evening, reducing screen time after 7 p.m., keeping phones out of the bedroom, and practicing calming activities like yoga or meditation. Drinking enough water during the day can also help regulate body temperature at night and reduce hot flashes.

Instead of trying to eliminate stress, which is often unrealistic, Gulati encourages women to change how they respond to it. Stress is treated as a signal to reassess priorities, set boundaries, and ask for support when needed. This shift helps build resilience and prevents burnout.

Physical activity becomes especially important in midlife, but it’s not just about workouts. Strength training helps protect muscles and bones, while regular movement throughout the day, balance exercises, and flexibility work support long-term health. Reducing long sitting hours is just as important as planned exercise.

Gulati also advises cutting back on alcohol and avoiding tobacco. After menopause, alcohol can worsen sleep, increase belly fat, and raise the risk of conditions like breast cancer and osteoporosis. Limiting late-night screen use can further improve sleep quality.

Nutrition is another key focus. Rather than aiming for perfection, Gulati encourages small, steady improvements like eating more vegetables and protein, staying hydrated, and choosing foods that may ease menopausal symptoms. The goal is better energy, sleep, and overall health, not just weight loss.

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Many in their late 30s and early 40s find themselves Googling weird stuff, including 'why am I having a tingling feelin in my arm?' 'why do I feel like something is brushing across my arm?', and more. This is what many call a phantom feeling arm, which means there is nothing actually tickling, but you feel it anyway. Medically, it is known as paresthesia, a tingling feeling or numb sensation, usually what people refer to as the pins and needles sensation. This is caused by temporary pressure on a nerve or any underlying nerve damage issue. If you look up anything like that, many women claimed, it instantly shows: perimenopause. Despite an increased awareness around it, perimenopause and menopause still remain a taboo. In a survey, it was found that 54 per cent of women were concerned about the uncertainty they are about to face in their perimenopause and menopause period.Menopause is not just hot flashes, it is much more than that. Dr Mahima Gulati, an endocrinologist at UConn Health points out symptoms like gaining weight despite "doing everything right", brain fog, aching joints, sleepless nights, exhausting days, and depleted energy. She says "These symptoms are real. This is not something women are imagining, and it is not just aging. There are real biological changes happening, and women deserve evidence based care and support as they move through them."What Can Help Women Dealing With Menopause and Perimenopause?Before going into the solution, let us first understand what these term really mean. Perimenopause: It is the period when a menstruator transitions to menopause, or when the period stops permanently. This phase is characterized by fluctuating hormone levels, irregular periods, which could be shorter, longer, heavier, or lighter, hot flashes, sleep problems and mood changes. Menopause: This is the natural, permanent end of menstruation defined as 12 consecutive months without a period. This typically occurs between ages 45 to 55. What Can Help In Menopause And Perimenopause?Form Connections“For women to sit in a room and realize they are not alone is incredibly therapeutic. Connection itself reduces the burden of chronic conditions,” points out Dr Gulati. The doctor points out that women often learn from each others’ experience and this is why social connections are extremely important in this time. Pay Attention On SleepSleep problems are one of the most common and exhausting symptoms of perimenopause and menopause. Hormonal changes can disrupt deep sleep, causing women to wake up in the early hours, deal with night sweats, and struggle to fall back asleep. When this happens regularly, it leads to severe energy drain, not just tiredness.To improve sleep, Gulati focuses on simple, practical habits. These include keeping a regular sleep schedule, avoiding caffeine and alcohol in the evening, reducing screen time after 7 p.m., keeping phones out of the bedroom, and practicing calming activities like yoga or meditation. Drinking enough water during the day can also help regulate body temperature at night and reduce hot flashes.Managing Stress DifferentlyInstead of trying to eliminate stress, which is often unrealistic, Gulati encourages women to change how they respond to it. Stress is treated as a signal to reassess priorities, set boundaries, and ask for support when needed. This shift helps build resilience and prevents burnout.Movement Beyond ExercisePhysical activity becomes especially important in midlife, but it’s not just about workouts. Strength training helps protect muscles and bones, while regular movement throughout the day, balance exercises, and flexibility work support long-term health. Reducing long sitting hours is just as important as planned exercise.Reducing Harmful HabitsGulati also advises cutting back on alcohol and avoiding tobacco. After menopause, alcohol can worsen sleep, increase belly fat, and raise the risk of conditions like breast cancer and osteoporosis. Limiting late-night screen use can further improve sleep quality.Eating to Support the BodyNutrition is another key focus. Rather than aiming for perfection, Gulati encourages small, steady improvements like eating more vegetables and protein, staying hydrated, and choosing foods that may ease menopausal symptoms. The goal is better energy, sleep, and overall health, not just weight loss.