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Jonathan Van Ness, the star is best known for his charming on-screen presence on Netflix's 'Queer Eye', has shocked fans with a drastic new look. The 37-year-old recently went on social media to announce he has lost 66 pounds, posting before-and-after photos highlighting his impressive weight loss. Though his journey involved the use of GLP-1 medications, Van Ness also made considerable changes to his lifestyle in order to reach his outcomes.
Van Ness, who has always been open about his body image and mental health struggles, posted his weight loss progress through Instagram Stories. The comparison pictures showed an older picture of his with more of a fuller build next to his current, thinner version of himself. The overlay caption boasted, "Lost 66 pounds!" and was accompanied by the MyFitnessPal logo, insinuating that the use of dietary tracking helped in his makeover.
His honest disclosure immediately fueled discussions, not only on his remarkable weight loss, but also on the regimen he used to get there. One month ago, Van Ness had also quelled rumors, confessing in a TikTok video that he was taking an GLP-1 medication—one of the most buzzed-about weight-loss drugs in recent years.
Van Ness confirmed that he had been prescribed a GLP-1 drug after a consultation with his physician. GLP-1, or glucagon-like peptide-1, is a hormone that regulates blood glucose and hunger. Originally intended for the treatment of Type 2 diabetes, such drugs—such as brand names Ozempic, Wegovy, and Mounjaro—have become trendy among celebrities and the general public for their weight-reducing attributes.
"I've lost and gained weight many times quite publicly, but this time, I required a little bit of additional assistance," Van Ness described, pointing out that his most recent weight gain had been motivated by private personal struggles in the last couple of years. He acknowledged that binge-eating disorder was the central reason behind his weight changes, causing him to experience compulsive eating and guilt.
After attempting a pill form of the medication to no avail, Van Ness moved to an injectable GLP-1 in September 2023. The effect was near-instant. "For the first time ever in my life, I had control over what I ate," he explained, noting the medication has been "massively helpful."
Although GLP-1 drugs were part of his change, Van Ness stressed that his weight loss was not only because of the medication. He consciously and sustainably changed his lifestyle so that he would take back control of his well-being.
"I want to mention GLP-1s have been a huge help, but I have also made huge other changes," he said in a social media post. These included:
Healthier Diet: Van Ness overhauled his diet, adopting healthier and more balanced meals.
Reducing Alcohol Consumption: Reducing alcohol consumption was an important factor in enhancing his physical as well as mental health.
Adopting Group Fitness: He emphasized that group Pilates had been the most important modification in his process, enhancing his overall mental and physical health.
"My mental state and overall mood is a different world since last year, and the most significant change was group fitness," he added.
Van Ness has been a long-time advocate for mental health awareness, frequently writing about the overlap between body image and emotional health. His recent weight gain, he conceded, had left him feeling "depressed and out of control." He credits medication, but also therapy, exercise, and self-care, with helping him find balance again.
His tale emphasizes a significant discussion regarding weight loss and the emotional price it extracts. Most people struggling with weight issues go through phases of bingeing, self-criticism, and anxiety. Van Ness' honesty regarding his experience motivates others to reach out and find various methods that suit them.
Van Ness is not the first public figure to speak about taking GLP-1 medications for weight loss. Over the past few years, a number of celebrities have admitted to taking the drugs.
Whoopi Goldberg has revealed that she lost considerable weight after taking Mounjaro, a GLP-1 drug taken for Type 2 diabetes.
Oprah Winfrey has talked about taking a GLP-1 agonist, although she has not revealed which exact drug.
Kelly Clarkson also revealed taking a weight-loss drug, though she claimed it was not Ozempic but did not provide more information.
The increasing discussion of these drugs has led to arguments about their availability, long-term health impacts, and ethics. Though they have been a miracle for those with weight-related health conditions, there is still fear of their overuse and social pressure to achieve specific body ideals.
With all the ongoing talk about GLP-1 meds, Van Ness' openness reminds us that weight loss isn't simply numbers on a scale but about being better, whole, and complete.
It's a simple Monday morning, the sun’s up bright and early, the weather is pleasant, but the anxiety strikes me as soon as I open my eyes. It's the dreaded 10th grade Math exam, the one subject I never excelled at. As if it wasn’t enough that the exam could make or break whether I get enough overall grade to get into my dream schools, if I were to get a bad score on this, it would be a permanent mark on my record.
“I had studied enough, I can do this” I told myself, but what was the point my admit card was nowhere to be found. I searched high and low, my anxiety peaking with every passing minute. “I thought I got up in time? Why am I late, they’ll never let me into the exam hall” I could hear my heartbeat in my ears and it’s getting louder, louder and louder, until it's just a loud long noise. Next thing I know, I’m on my bed, I graduated 10th grade years ago and this was a dream.
If it isn’t your school exam, then maybe your college entrance exam or perhaps a qualifying exam that could determine whether you get your dream job or not. Recurring dreams about school happen to a lot of us.
These dreams are very common. Experts suggest that they often appear when a person is feeling anxious in their waking life, especially about being evaluated or judged by a boss or another authority figure. These dreams can take many forms: a person might oversleep for an exam, be unable to find their classroom, study the wrong subject, or even show up to school without clothes. The dreams revisit a place where we first experienced success or failure based on our performance.
To understand this, one must know that dreams are a way for the mind to process memories and experiences, both conscious and unconscious. The school setting in these dreams is a stand-in for a feeling of being tested in life and worrying about not meeting other people’s expectations.
The reason school so often appears as the setting for these anxiety dreams is because it’s where we first learn how to deal with life. Feelings of stress, inadequacy, and embarrassment often happen first in a school environment. These early experiences create foundational beliefs in our unconscious mind about how we handle pressure. For some people, these beliefs can be very hard to change, causing feelings of stress and worry to resurface years later in dreams, even if the beliefs aren't relevant to their adult life.
According to the Sleep Foundation, having a recurring dream—the same dream happening again and again—is a sign of an unresolved problem or a difficult emotion in a person’s life. These dreams may be a way for the mind to make sense of past experiences, or they might be a sort of practice run to help a person prepare for a threat or challenge they're facing in real life. The dreams are often a way for the mind to push a person to finally face and deal with a problem.
Another reason for a recurring dream is that it represents a basic psychological need that isn't being met. Experts say everyone needs to feel independent, feel capable, and feel connected to others. Some research has found that people who lack these feelings are more likely to have recurring nightmares with negative themes, such as failing, falling, or being attacked.
If you're bothered by having the same dream over and over, you can take some steps to try and make them stop. Experts recommend a few different approaches
At least once in our lives, most of us have dreamed of having a perfect memory. A brain that would remember crucial details at the nick of time, whether it is during your exam or an interview. But this is not just a dream, it is just another day for this young girl, who has a ‘Super Brain’.
Scientifically speaking, she has a very rare condition that makes her remember every detail of her life, like a record. In a 2024 interview by Official W5, Emily Nash, who was 18-year-old at the time of filming, from Ottawa, described her incredible ability to remember everything.
The video explained how she is one of the few people in the world confirmed to have Highly Superior Autobiographical Memory (HSAM) She can remember the exact date and details of public events, from the death of Queen Elizabeth to celebrity news and movie release dates. Her memory is so precise that she can tell you what she was doing on a specific date, down to what she had for lunch and what was playing on the radio.
Her family even gave her the nickname "Wikipedia" because she was their go-to source for random facts and dates. Emily describes her memory as a "calendar" where each day is like a little movie she can rewind and fast-forward through.
According to a 2024 study by Neuropsychology Review, HSAM is a very rare and special ability where a person can remember almost every single day of their life in incredible detail. If you give them a specific date, like "January 15, 2003," they can instantly recall what they were doing, what the weather was like, and even what they were wearing. Unlike memory athletes who use tricks to memorize things, people with HSAM do this automatically and without any effort. It feels like a movie playing in their mind. The review confirmed that HSAM is a truly unique type of memory.
People with HSAM can recall memories quickly, with amazing detail, and the memories are almost always perfectly accurate.
A person with HSAM who was studied at ages 75 and 80 still had an incredible memory, showing that this ability seems to resist the normal memory loss that comes with getting older.
The study found that people with HSAM are not better at remembering just anything. They are not smarter, and their memory for general facts, names, or things they learned in a textbook is normal—only their memory for their own life is special.
The study explained what goes on inside the brains of people with HSAM.
When people with HSAM recall a memory, their brain activity goes into overdrive. Areas that are normally used for memory light up much more intensely. This suggests that their memories are more vivid and that the brain's "memory network" is working at a much higher level.
Interestingly, the physical structure of their brains doesn't appear to be bigger or different in size. Instead, the main difference is in the way certain brain regions are connected, particularly the hippocampus, which is a key part of the brain for memory. This suggests that the special memory isn't because of a bigger brain but because the brain's connections are wired differently.
Understanding HSAM could be incredibly important for the future. By figuring out how these rare individuals remember so well, scientists might be able to develop new strategies to help people with memory problems, such as those caused by diseases like Alzheimer's. It could also help improve the accuracy of eyewitness testimony in legal cases. Ultimately, this research gives us a unique window into how memory works and how it might be strengthened.
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Emotional Intelligence (EI) is not something many people understand. We all develop this skill as we age and meet more people, however, the learning curve may be different for all of us. But why do we even need to be emotionally intelligent? And how is it a skill? This is not just a social phenomenon, but a complex inter-emotional communication that one needs to learn.
In simpler terms, you as a person need to have the ability to recognize your own feelings, manage them as well as understand other people. The best example of it would be when a young child who never had to share suddenly gets a sibling.
Now everything that belonged solely to the child gets divided, like the parent’s love and affection. In turn, the child acts out in different ways, like throwing tantrums, crying and pouting so that the attention is on them again. It is now the parents’ turn to teach children what they’re feeling and how to manage these feelings.
However, as you grow up, the situations are much more complicated, so are your feelings and you will still encounter people you may not understand or some situations. So how do emotionally intelligent people go about handling things like this. The first answer would be to explain yourself, expressing your feelings and showing your intent. But you are going about this the wrong way.
Tessa West, social psychologist and professor at New York University, speaking to CNBC News says even when you run into a difficult situation like a conflict with a spouse, leaving your feeling bare won’t help the situation as much. So, what do you do? She explains in 3 points what emotionally intelligent people do in difficult situations.
Most people are taught that when you're in a conflict, the first thing you should do is tell the other person how you feel. But a social psychologist says this isn't always the smartest move. True emotional intelligence is not just about expressing feelings but also knowing when to do it. Sometimes, it's better to talk about what happened first.
It’s easy to assume that everyone sees a situation the same way you do. You might feel disrespected because a coworker cut you off in a meeting. But that coworker might have done it because the meeting was almost over, and they had to make a decision.
Instead of starting with your feelings, a better approach is to talk about the specific event. You could say, "Here's what I remember happening. What's your side of the story?" This shows that you're open to hearing their perspective and aren't assuming you're right.
It's natural to assume you know why someone did something. But these assumptions are often wrong and can be hurtful. People tend to think the worst if they don't trust the other person.
A better way is to ask for their reasons. You could say, "I made some guesses about why you did that, but I'd love to hear your side." Admitting your assumption helps calm things down and makes room for a real conversation. The reason for their action might be something you never even thought of.
Once you've cleared up what happened and why, your feelings might change. With a better understanding, you might not be as upset as you were before.
This is the right time to talk about how you feel. By waiting, you can have a more productive conversation. This approach helps build stronger relationships because it’s based on understanding each other, not just on emotions.
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