Are you watching too much porn? Psychologists have developed a test to measure whether someone is watching too much porn. The scale was developed after there was significant evidence that watching too much can harm health. This scale helps therapists diagnose problematic pornography use (PPU). This is a type of compulsive sexual behaviour disorder (CSBD), which can affect a person's mental and sexual relationships and may lead to sexual violence.

As reported in the DailyMail, PPU is on the rise, and experts fear that it may lead to conditions like erectile dysfunction, anxiety, and depression, alongside withdrawal symptoms. This is why the experts have come up with a scale to detect PPU.

We spoke to relationship counsellor Ruchi Ruuh, and asked her what could happen if someone watches too much porn and how it affects their sex life? "Frequent exposure to porn can heavily shape sexual scripts, creating distorted ideas about what sex should look like, who should initiate it and what is considered desirable or acceptable. What the whole experience does is that it creates unrealistic physical expectations," she explains.

Ruuh points out that the bodies and genitals depicted in porn form an idealised image which leads to dissatisfaction with their own bodies and their partner's natural appearances.

What Is Porn?

Ruuh explains that it is a performance practised by professionals under guidance. It showcases sex as a flawlessly coordinated and intense, act. It is devoid of pressure, emotions and pauses that are very much a part of a real sexual encounter. This is what creates stress when one tries to replicate such acts in real life.

Another problematic aspect is the glorification of kinks. Most Porn has some kind of kink, performed flawlessly with partners completely in sync and enjoying it. "Porn often highlights extreme or niche kinks as commonplace. While this may normalise exploration, it can also lead to people feeling pressured to engage in acts they’re not ready for or genuinely uncomfortable with," she notes.

Real-life communication, consent and vulnerability are often missing in porn, leading viewers to expect sex to be spontaneous and instinctive.

Porn Leads To Unrealistic Expectations In A Relationship

Due to the unrealistic depiction of genitals, like hairless, symmetrical or surgically enhanced body parts, it can lead to criticism of a partner's body. Many also believe that sex should mirror pornographic perfection. It also misunderstands certain that not all acts can bring pleasure to your partner and that there are certain acts where your partner can draw boundaries.

Affecting The Young Minds

DailyMail reports that the UK has the second highest incidence of internet porn searches in the world, with an average of 1,66,00,000 searches each month. A quarter of 16 to 21-year-olds first saw porn on the internet and were still in primary school. By the age of 13, 50% of them have already been exposed to it. As per a 2015 report published in the Open Journal of Psychiatry & Allied Sciences, in India, 63% of youths in urban areas reported watching porn, with 74% accessing it through their mobile phones. The online erotic comic is also accessed in India.

Ruuh points out that young viewers may think that kinks are common and desired by everyone when it is not actually the case. "They might force, coerce, even shame their partners for being vanilla. Believing that extreme acts, such as BDSM or group sex, are the default rather than exceptions or consensual choices between partners."

There is also an overemphasis on aesthetics, on how the partners look or behave, which may be dissatisfactory in real circumstances. It also creates a perception that sex must escalate or surprise, rather than valuing it as an emotional connection and trust.

"Porn has no real representation of how a relationship dynamic works and how the emotional safety and intimacy ultimately lead to sexual desire. This missing gap makes individuals value the desire for novelty over intimacy which can be detrimental to forming a healthy relationship," says Ruuh.

It also creates anxiety in the bedroom. For instance, your partner may experience performance anxiety for not being "adventurous enough", or body image issues, kink pressure and fear of judgment, which might come from the expectation to perform unrealistic acts.

"Porn often creates a gap between what's fantasy vs the reality. It involves exaggerated scenarios that might seem appealing during solo play for imagination but feel impractical, uncomfortable or even undesirable in real-life settings. This over-reliance on porn’s extreme visuals or specific kinks can create arousal triggers that might not translate into partnered sex, causing frustration or a sense of disconnection. For example, someone might fantasize about certain acts during solo sex, influenced by porn, but find their partner uncomfortable with them. Sex is doing things, two people understanding and pleasing each other accordingly. With Porn, only a one-sided understanding of sex is created, which might make it hard to prioritize shared enjoyment and mutual consent during intimacy," explains Ruuh.

Can It Also Impair People's Communication?

Ruuh says that it could make people feel embarrassed about expressing desires influenced by porn, worrying their partner will find them strange or abnormal. Sometimes, the person also expects their partner to know their kinks, just like what porn shows. Most porn does not show any backstory of how two people or more came to a conclusion on what acts must they perform, this could lead to an unrealistic expectation that your "partner already knows what you want".

"Since porn rarely depicts discussions about emotions, boundaries or consent, viewers may lack the tools and vocabulary to articulate their own needs or respect a partner’s," she says.

So What Does The Porn-Test Scale Do?

Developed by academics from Nottingham Trent University, the Problematic Pornography Consumption Scale has questioned hundreds of porn users, of both sexes and led to an 18-point questionnaire which can be carried out at home too.

The test found that men are more likely to score highly in this than women, regardless of their sexual orientation.

The test is developed around the 6 core elements of PPU. These include: salience, which refers to how important pornography is to a person's life; mood modification: how much they use masturbation to porn as a way of making them feel a certain way. Conflict: how much does masturbation to porn impact on the significant others, if it gets in the way of their work or other commitments. Tolerance: is masturbation to porn a necessary requirement to achieve a certain mood; relapse, which refers to attempts to abstain and then return to the problematic behaviour patterns; and lastly withdrawal: unpleasant feelings and emotional states that occur after quitting or attempting to quit porn.

Take a closer look at that soft or perhaps not-so-soft belly around your midsection. What appears to be a harmless sign of middle age may be causing more harm than you realize. From late-night feasting and skipped exercise to something much more sinister—environmental toxins—the culprits behind belly fat extend beyond diet. Daily exposures to plastic containers, personal care products, and more may disrupt your hormones and stealthily lead to weight gain. As we celebrate Father's Day 2025, take the discussion about so-called "dad bod" from funny to healthy—and discover what your gut may be whispering.

On the surface, the "dad bod" can look like a endearing sign of fatherhood—a physical manifestation of priorities changing after children enter the equation. That bulging belly, even affectionately referred to with colloquialisms such as "beer belly" or "potbelly," has gained cultural validation in recent times. But behind that soft (or occasionally hard) façade, there exists an emerging health issue with dire consequences.

As we honor fathers on this Father's Day, it's time to shine the spotlight on a problem that affects millions of men around the world: middle-aged abdominal fat. More than a vanity issue, this colloquially termed "dad bod" is strongly associated with chronic illness, hormonal imbalance, and even mortality.

What Is a Dad Bod?

The phrase "dad bod" has become shorthand for calling a middle-aged guy with an average body—someone who isn't obese but isn't lean either. Social media and popular culture have fully embraced this trope, providing a welcome respite from sculpted gym physiques.

But what fuels this change? Anecdotally, the change occurs after becoming a father. The physical and emotional stresses of having children frequently result in lifestyle changes: more sedentary, midnight snacking, and added stress. But it's not just anecdotal. Northwestern University conducted a study tracking more than 10,000 men that concluded that first-time dads gained more than 4 pounds following their child's birth, while men without children lost weight during the same timeframe.

Beer Belly: Why Men Store Fat in the Abdomen?

Although both men and women accumulate fat with age, men have a biological tendency to store it around the belly. Unlike women, for whom estrogen serves to store fat around hips and thighs to use as energy during pregnancy or lactation, men do not have this hormonal benefit. Instead, decreases in testosterone and natural loss of muscle mass lead to the accumulation of belly fat—in this case, the unhealthy sort called visceral fat.

This tough belly fat doesn't just fill out the midsection—it encircles internal organs such as the liver and intestines. And that's where it becomes lethal. Visceral fat triggers inflammation, derails metabolic function, and surges the bloodstream with fatty acids, elevating cholesterol and blood sugar levels.

Why Visceral Fat Around The Belly Is A Health Time Bomb

Imagine the belly as the trunk of a vehicle. A bit of storage is fine. But when that trunk is full to bursting, fat starts being deposited in unhealthy locations such as the liver, muscles, and pancreas. The overflow effect significantly increases the risk of:

• Heart disease and heart attacks
• Stroke
• Type 2 diabetes
• High blood pressure
• Fatty liver disease
• Colon and breast cancer
• Asthma and dementia

Visceral fat spews out more inflammatory cytokines and fatty acids than subcutaneous fat, the type that lies just beneath the skin. The hormonal and metabolic imbalance sets the stage for a cascade of chronic disease—most often quietly and without apparent symptoms until it is too late.

What most people don't know is that environmental chemicals also contribute to midlife weight gain. Endocrine disruptors—chemicals that interfere with hormones—are present in common products such as plastics (BPA), detergents, cosmetics, food preservatives, and even furniture. These chemicals disrupt hormone function, cause insulin resistance, and eventually lead to excess fat storage around the abdomen.

Chemicals such as phthalates, PFAS, and triclosan not only disrupt metabolism but also induce improper hormonal responses to the extent that the body will store fat or produce insulin when it's not required. In the long run, this may establish a metabolic condition that's almost impossible to change without help.

Does Fatherhood Change Men's Bodies?

Becoming a father is not only a milestone—it's a way of life disruption. From sleepless nights, at-large meals, and losing self-care habits, most fathers gradually gain weight. Eating patterns change, exercise becomes the exception, and stress increases. Factor in the psychological burden of possible postpartum depression among men—usually underrated—and the danger of gaining unhealthy lifestyle habits compound.

Even dietary habits become distorted: finishing children's meals, having snacks while driving, and favoring ease over nutrition becomes the usual. These changes, as small as they may appear, take their toll on a slow and steady build-up of visceral fat.

How to Lose the Midlife Belly?

Here's the good news: even small weight loss can significantly lower visceral fat. A study in the journal Obesity discovered that a loss of 5% of total body weight is sufficient to decrease visceral fat by 11%. For a 200-pound person, that's only 10 pounds of weight loss—but with a big health benefit.

Steps to begin with:

Get tested: Have lab testing done to determine nutrient deficiencies or hormonal disruptions that might be causing weight gain.

Cut the toxins: Get rid of products containing toxic parabens, phthalates, and BPA in your home and personal care products.

Know your genetics: Some genes play a role in how well you absorb and store fat. Knowing what your genetic makeup is can assist you in personalizing a diet and lifestyle plan that suits you.

Move more: Walking, bodyweight training, or going to the gym, all add up to burning fat and lowering inflammation.

Eat closer to nature: Lean proteins, fiber vegetables, and whole foods aid in weight loss and healthy microbiome. A healthier gut can lower inflammation and avoid obesity.

Consult medical assistance: GLP-1 receptor inhibitors such as Ozempic can be considered with a doctor's guidance for those who have resistant visceral fat or metabolic complications.

Father's Day 2025 can be more than just burgers and presents. It can also be a time for reflection. For all that energy and love dads invest in their family, now it's time to invest some of that energy into self-care. That midlife belly isn't all about image or clothing size—it's a way to your future health.

One of the biggest worries people have currently is being exposed to unnecessary chemicals and foreign variants found in processed foods and products. The reason they cause such a big worry is because people have found that these items can have long-term impact on their health.

One cause of concern many people have is forever chemicals. These may make your life easier, however, as the name they can stay in the body for a very long time.

A new study has found that children exposed to "forever chemicals" (PFAS) before they're born might have a higher risk of developing high blood pressure as they grow up, especially during their teenage years.

Early Exposure, Later Problems

Researchers reported on June 12 in the Journal of the American Heart Association that teenage boys had a 17% higher risk of elevated blood pressure if their mothers had high levels of PFAS in blood samples taken after giving birth.

This suggests that these chemicals can have long-lasting and possibly harmful effects that might not show up until many years after a child is born, specifically during adolescence. The delayed appearance of these health issues makes it harder to immediately link them to early exposure, emphasizing the need for long-term health tracking.

What Are "Forever Chemicals"?

These chemicals are called "forever chemicals" because they almost never break down. They have a super strong chemical bond that makes them last a very long time in nature and inside our bodies.

These chemicals are widespread and can be found in 99% of Americans. We can absorb them through the food we eat, the water we drink, the air we breathe, or even by touching products that contain them. The Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) says there are thousands of different PFAS chemicals, found in everything from drinking water to fast-food wrappers, non-stick cookware like Teflon, stain-resistant furniture and clothing, cosmetics, and personal care products.

How the Study Was Done

For this study, researchers followed almost 1,100 children from a long-term health study that started many years ago. After the mothers gave birth, they gave blood samples. Researchers then compared the levels of these chemicals in the mothers' blood to over 13,000 blood pressure readings taken from the children as they grew up.

The results showed that as the amount of these chemicals doubled in mothers, the risk of higher systolic blood pressure (the top number in a blood pressure reading) increased in their children. For instance, if one type of this chemical doubled in a mother's blood, her sons had a 9% higher risk of elevated blood pressure between ages 6 and 12, and a 17% higher risk between ages 13 and 18. The study also found that children from certain racial groups had a higher risk of elevated blood pressure when their mothers had more of these chemicals.

Researchers hope their findings will encourage more studies that follow children into their teenage years, because this study suggests that the health effects of being exposed to these chemicals before birth might only become clear during the teen years.

Why High Blood Pressure in Kids is a Concern

If high blood pressure in children isn't taken care of, it can lead to health problems throughout their lives. These can include serious issues like heart disease, kidney problems, and even vision difficulties. Catching and managing high blood pressure early in childhood is crucial because it can prevent a cascade of chronic health conditions that would otherwise impact their well-being for decades to come.

Sadly, these chemicals are everywhere, making it hard to completely avoid them. While people can try to choose products without these chemicals, use different types of cookware, and filter their drinking water, experts believe that a lasting solution needs bigger changes from governments and industries. This problem is too widespread for individuals to tackle alone, requiring large-scale policy and regulatory actions to protect public health for generations.

Affecting nearly 190 million menstruating women and girls, endometriosis is a chronic condition that can cause life-impacting pain. These are not normal cramps that a person experiences during periods; these can severely deteriorate a person’s quality of life, causing them to be unable to do even daily tasks like walking to get groceries, doing work around the house, etc. This condition is caused when the uterine lining grows outside the uterus, which then causes severe pain in the pelvis and also causes reproductive issues like infertility. However, what causes endometriosis?

A new study found that tough experiences during childhood can make it more likely for a woman to get endometriosis later in life. Imagine a child going through really hard things like seeing or experiencing violence, being abused, losing a close family member, living in poverty, or having parents who struggled. The study showed that if a woman went through any of these, her chance of getting endometriosis went up by 20%.

Understanding Endometriosis

Endometriosis is a fairly common condition, affecting about 1 out of every 10 women. Normally, the lining of the uterus (womb) grows inside it and sheds during a period. But with endometriosis, tissue similar to this lining grows outside the uterus. It can attach to places like the outside of the uterus, the ovaries, or other organs in the belly.

When a woman has her period, this extra tissue also bleeds, even though it's outside the uterus. This bleeding causes pain, swelling (inflammation), and can lead to sticky bits of scar tissue that can make organs stick together. Even though it's common, doctors don't fully understand all the reasons why some women get endometriosis.

Childhood Trauma and Endometriosis Risk

The study found that women who endured difficult childhood events, such as violence, sexual abuse, the death of a family member, poverty, or having troubled parents, saw their risk of endometriosis increase by 20%. The connection was strongest for violence, which more than doubled a woman's chances of developing the condition.

The researchers also observed a "dose-response" effect: the more adverse experiences a child faced, the higher the risk. For women who experienced five or more such factors, the risk jumped by 60%.

Long-Term Impact

For this study, researchers looked at the health records of over 1.3 million women in Sweden. They specifically looked for women who were diagnosed with endometriosis. Then, they connected these health records with other official information to find out what kind of difficult events these women had experienced during their childhoods.

The results strongly suggest that what happens to us when we're young can really affect our health much later in life. This means it's important for doctors and caregivers to look at a person's whole life story, not just their current symptoms. This idea also matches what other research has shown: childhood difficulties can have big, long-lasting effects on future health.

Possible Explanations

While the study clearly shows a strong connection, it doesn't mean that childhood trauma directly causes endometriosis. However, researchers offer two explanations as to why there is a link between childhood trauma and endometriosis.

Impact on the Immune System

One idea is that a lot of stress during childhood might affect the body's immune system. The immune system is like your body's defense team. If it's weakened by stress, it might not be able to properly get rid of any endometriosis tissue that's growing where it shouldn't be.

Increased Pain Sensitivity

Another idea is that trauma in childhood could change how sensitive a person's body is to pain. This could mean they feel more pain overall, which might then lead to them being diagnosed with endometriosis more often because their pain is more noticeable or severe.