New year, new me! I said this to myself as the year 2025 started. But soon found myself hanging out with the same people I didn't agree with and drinking the same hot chocolate I hated. I realized that New Year's resolutions were not enough, I needed something more.

It was then I read the book How Neurobiology Can Help You Rewire Your Brain to Feel Safe, Connected, and Empowered by Juliane Taylor Shore, a therapist in Austin, Texas. I realised that stringent boundaries were pivotal to both personal and professional growth. Physical boundaries, for instance, protect your personal space while emotional boundaries protect your mental health.

But boundaries should not be confused with a request. For example, if you have a family member with a different political view, and you ask them to bring a certain candidate up that's a direct request. Whereas a boundary is saying, "I’m not comfortable with this conversation continuing. I'm no longer going to speak to you about this.’” Boundaries aren’t about controlling other people, she adds—they’re about taking action to protect your mental health. Terri Cole, a New York-based therapist and author of Boundary Boss emphasized that boundaries should be considered as "your own personal rules of engagement for how others will interact with you. If you don't set any boundaries, you are likely to become stressed and burned out. As resentment simmers, your relationships might become strained.

Here Are Few Tips You Can Use To Set Boundaries

Push Back Against Work Overload

For Shore, a working mom, the challenge isn’t her passion for work but the creeping demands that keep her from family time. She’s learned to pause before saying “yes” to new tasks, asking herself what she would have to sacrifice by taking on more. "The truth is, I can’t say yes to everything. If I do, I’ll have no time for what matters most,” she shared in her book. Shore’s deliberate approach helps her restore balance while setting an example for her young daughter. Her advice? Build in a buffer to consider your commitments, and don’t let people-pleasing derail your well-being.

Reserve Sacred Tech-Free Time

What would it feel like to start your day without diving into your devices? Going off tech for a few hours does wonders for your health. A new rule? No internet before 11 a.m. Instead, fill your mornings with activities that bring you joy, like walking your dog, meditating, or simply savoring coffee with your family.

Treat News Like A Snack

Health experts warn that doomscrolling has become a mental health drain in modern day. "Refreshing the headlines all day left me stressed and emotionally unavailable to my clients. His solution? Treating the news like it’s 1980—checking headlines just once or twice a day or opting for a weekly news digest. If you’ve felt the same pressure to stay constantly informed, a more measured approach could help you feel focused and optimistic.

Banish Tech From Bedroom

Are you tethered to your phone overnight? What if you start going to bed without your phone? Well, it might result in better sleep and a refreshed morning outlook. Emergencies are rare, as per health experts. You can let loved ones know in advance about your new habit. A good night’s sleep might just be the best gift you give yourself this year.

Expect Equal Effort in Relationships

Clinical psychologist Heather Stevenson used to carry conversations, filling in silences and drawing others out, often at the expense of sharing her own thoughts. It left her feeling drained and unfulfilled. Now, she is prioritizing balance in her relationships. "I want them to be mutual," she told a media organization. If you find yourself in one-sided dynamics, try stepping back and letting the other person share the load. True connections thrive on reciprocity.

Reconnect Face-to-Face

Virtual interactions have become a way of life, but for therapist Kathleen Smith, they began to feel stifling. She's now prioritizing in-person connections, declining unnecessary Zoom meetings and seeking out community events instead. "All those little side conversations when you’re face-to-face? They’re so good for mental health."

Stop Overapologizing

Do you apologize for things that aren’t your fault? Therapists want you to reconsider this habit as constant apologizing disempowers us. Instead, practice gratitude. Swap “Sorry for bothering you” with “Thank you for your time.” This subtle shift can transform how you’re perceived—and how you feel about yourself.

Say "Yes" With Intention

Mental Health experts emphasize the power of saying no. "Saying yes out of obligation goes against my values of connection and authenticity,” she explains. By tuning into your real desires, you can reserve your energy for what truly matters.

Protect Yourself from Energy Vampires

Do certain people leave you feeling drained? Therapist Sarah Rafik Botrus has learned to limit her exposure to these “energy vampires.” Whether it’s a quick phone call or a brief visit, she sets clear boundaries to preserve her mental health. Over time, these relationships often become less draining—or fade away entirely.

Reclaim Your Privacy

In an era of oversharing, many are scaling back their social media presence. “Not everything needs an audience. By savoring moments privately, people might feel more meaningful. If you’re ready to follow suit, start small: Try a social media detox for a week or limit your posts to a couple of days.

Bollywood actor Varun Dhawan recently opened up about the diagnosis of his 2-year-old daughter with Developmental Dysplasia of the Hip.

Varun, who welcomed his daughter Lara in 2024 along with his wife, Natasha Dalal, shared that the condition affected her ability to walk and run normally.

In a recent episode of Be A Man, Yaar!, Varun noted that the toddler’s condition was diagnosed when she was around one-and-a-half years old.

"My daughter was diagnosed with DDH, in which the hip slips out of the hip socket. Ek pair lamba chota hojaata hai jiski wajah se walk tedi hojaati hai (One leg becomes shorter than the other, which causes an uneven limp while walking). You can't walk or run properly," he said.

The Badrinath Ki Dulhania actor noted that Lara did not need surgery, but underwent a procedure that put her hip back.

“But she had to be in a spica cast. That means she had to be in a cast for 2.5 months. Which is extremely difficult. To put her under anesthesia, and then she woke up in a cast. Now the cast is out,” he said, adding that the baby is now in recovery.

The Border 2 actor said he chose to speak about Lara’s diagnosis to raise awareness among parents. He urged them to closely observe their children’s movements and consult a paediatrician if they notice anything unusual.

Also read: US FDA Approves Drug To Treat Rare Childhood Syndrome

What Is DDH? How Can It Be Diagnosed?

The UK NHS explains that Developmental dysplasia of the hip (DDH) is a condition where the "ball and socket" joint of the hip does not properly form in babies and young children.

The congenital multifactoral disease has about a 30 per cent increased risk if a family member is affected.

The hip joint typically connects the thigh bone (femur) to the pelvis. Its upper end, called the femoral head, is shaped like a ball and fits into a cup-like socket in the hip.

However, in children born with DDH, this socket is not deep enough to securely hold the femoral head, resulting in an unstable joint.

Also read: Child Deaths Fall In India Since 2000 But Progress Slows, Says UN Report

In more severe cases, the ball can slip out of the socket completely, leading to dislocation.

DDH may affect 1 or both hips, and is more common in:

• girls
• firstborn children
• families where there have been childhood hip problems
• babies born in the breech position

While some babies born with a dislocated hip will show no outward signs, common signs to look includes:

• Legs of different lengths
• Uneven skin folds on the thigh
• Less mobility or flexibility on one side
• Limping, toe walking, or a waddling gait

DDH: Is The Condition Treatable

Early detection is helpful and boosts treatment. When detected at birth, DDH can usually be corrected with the use of a harness or brace.

In cases where the hip is not dislocated at birth, the condition may not be noticed until the child begins walking. In such cases, treatment may be more complicated, with less predictable results.

Many women silently accept certain health issues as a normal part of life. However, many of these symptoms, such as painful menses and fatigue, can indicate underlying medical conditions that need attention. So, women shouldn’t neglect their health and seek timely help. Dr Payal Narang, Consultant Obstetrician & Gynaecologist, Motherhood Hospital, Pune, in an interview with Health and Me, spoke about the health problems that women often normalise, but that can become catastrophic in the long run.

Read more: Three Health Checks Every Woman Should Do Each Month, According To Experts

Women often juggle multiple responsibilities that include work, family, and household duties and neglect their own health. They are busy due to professional and personal life commitments and often fail to go for regular health check-ups. Moreover, they also experience menstrual problems and ignore symptoms such as painful periods, constant fatigue, heavy menstrual bleeding, and urinary leakage after childbirth. Women should consult a doctor instead of normalising these symptoms, which can delay diagnosis and treatment of important health issues. Paying attention to these signs and seeking medical advice can help women maintain better health and quality of life.

Concerning symptoms that women shouldn’t ignore at all

1. Painful menses that can interfere with the daily routine: Many women believe that severe menstrual pain is a natural part of having periods. Period pain is unavoidable. While mild cramps can be common, intense pain that interferes with daily activities may indicate conditions such as endometriosis, fibroids, or hormonal imbalance that need prompt treatment. Persistent pain should be evaluated by a doctor.
2. Fatigue: Feeling tired sometimes is normal, especially due to hectic schedules or traveling. However, constant fatigue that does not improve with rest may raise the chances of anemia, thyroid problems, nutritional deficiencies, or even stress. So, beware and pay attention to the symptoms.
3. Heavy menstrual bleeding: So, if bleeding lasts more than 7-8 days, requires frequent pad changes, or causes weakness and dizziness, it can be due to hormonal imbalance or fibroids. Heavy bleeding can also increase the risk of anemia if left untreated. So, address this problem with the help of an expert.
4. Urinary leakage after childbirth: Urinary leakage after childbirth is a concerning problem quietly accepted by women due to fear of being ridiculed, embarrassment, judgment, or shame. This can take a toll on the woman’s emotional well-being. She will avoid socializing due to the fear of leakage. It is commonly seen in a large number of women because of weakened pelvic floor muscles after childbirth. Various options, such as pelvic floor exercises, physiotherapy, and medical guidance, can help women to manage this condition and improve their quality of life.

Women, listening to the body, don’t just Google and try any remedies on your own. It is necessary to follow expert-recommended guidelines for tackling these problems.

Long considered a standard tool for assessing body weight, Body Mass Index (BMI) may not be as reliable as once believed. A new study shows that relying on BMI can incorrectly classify people as overweight or obese.

When a team of Italian researchers used the gold standard technique of dual-energy X-ray absorptiometry (DXA) to measure body fat in the general population, they found that the traditional WHO-approved BMI classification system misidentified a significant number of people as having overweight or obesity.

How Is The BMI Wrong?

A total of 1,351 adults of mixed gender aged between 18 and 98 years were checked for their body weight using the DXA system.

The results, published in the journal Nutrients, revealed that more than one-third (34 percent) of those with obesity defined by BMI had been misclassified and should be in the overweight category.

For those with an overweight BMI, DXA showed that more than half – 53 percent – had been misclassified – three quarters of those misclassified fall into the normal weight category, while the other quarter should have been classified as having obesity.

The DXA analysis found that the prevalence of overweight and obesity across the cohort was around 37 percent overall (23.4 percent overweight, and 13.2 percent obesity, compared to 26.2 percent and 14.1 percent with BMI).

“In the past few years, there has been a lot of criticism of the BMI system due to its inability to accurately capture body fat percentage or distribution, to correctly categorise weight status based on adiposity,” said Professor Marwan El Ghoch, of the Department of Biomedical, Metabolic and Neural Sciences, University of Modena and Reggio Emilia, Modena, Italy.

Also read: Your BMI Does Not Reflect Your Health: New Study Warns How It Misses A Key Health Aspect

Despite these concerns, BMI as a weight classification system continues to be used in the general population in primary healthcare (i.e., general practitioners) and non-clinical (i.e., policy and health insurance) settings, he added.

The researchers urged revising public health guidelines to consider combining direct body composition or their surrogate measures, such as skinfold measurement or body circumference, with the waist-to-height ratio, with BMI, while assessing weight status in the general population.

Waist-to-Height Ratio May Be More Accurate: The India Story

In January 2025, India revamped its obesity guidelines, and the new approach focused on abdominal obesity and comorbid diseases, rather than just BMI.

According to the redefining team, it was essential to move beyond BMI-only approaches to tackle the ever-growing number of people related to other major health risks. They stated that while BMI can be a screening tool, obesity must be defined by body fat.

“BMI should be used for screening purposes, but obesity should be confirmed ideally by a measure of body fat wherever feasible, or another measure such as waist circumference, WHR, or Waist-to-height ratio,” Dr. Naval Vikram, Professor of Medicine, at AIIMS, New Delhi, was quoted as saying to IANS at the time.

Also read: 41 million children aged 5-19 living with high BMI in India: Study

What Do The New Guidelines Say

It recognizes abdominal fat — closely linked to insulin resistance — as a key factor in the diagnosis. It integrates the presence of comorbidities — such as diabetes and cardiovascular disease — into the diagnostic process.

The revised guidelines also introduce a two-stage classification system, addressing both generalized and abdominal obesity.

Stage 1 Obesity: Increased adiposity (BMI > 23 kg/m²) without apparent effects on organ functions or routine daily activities.

Stage 2 Obesity: Advanced state of obesity with increased BMI more than 23 kg/2, and abdominal adiposity; excess Waist Circumference or Waist-to-Height Ratio.