At 28, This Man Is Choosing Euthanasia Over Living With Bipolar Disorder- 'Life Is Absolutely Worth Living But Mine Is Entirely Unbearable'

Updated Mar 15, 2025 | 06:00 PM IST

SummaryOn his bipolar disorder journey, a 28-year-old Ghanaian man shares his experience and decision to choose assisted death in the Netherlands prompting a much-needed conversation about mental health struggles and how some people are in a cyclic treatment resistance.
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This is the story of Joseph, a 28-year-old man who's made a very difficult choice. On December 2024, Joseph Awuah-Darko shared the difficult decision of choosing euthanasia on Instagram. He's not physically sick, but he's been battling a severe mental illness called bipolar disorder for many years. He's tried many treatments, but nothing has helped him feel better. He feels like the pain of his illness is too much to bear. He's shared his story publicly to help people understand what he's going through and to show how serious mental illness can be. Joseph shared a post that explained why he is making this decision, in the caption of the post he shared, “I am not saying that life (as a phenomenon) isn’t worth living. It ABSOLUTELY is. What I am saying is that the mental weight of MINE has become entirely unbearable.”

Joseph has bipolar disorder, which means his moods swing very high and very low. He's had this illness for a long time, and it makes his life very difficult. On his Instagram, he has shared his journey with bipolar, he explained that he tried many different medicines and therapies, but they haven't worked. He feels constant pain and suffering because of his illness. He's reached a point where he feels like he can't go on anymore. He's been open about his struggles on social media, hoping to raise awareness about mental health. He wants people to understand how much he suffers and why he's made this decision.

Euthanasia in the Netherlands

Government of the Netherlands explain that in the Netherlands, it's legal for a doctor to help someone end their life if they meet certain conditions. This is called euthanasia. Joseph has applied for this because he feels his mental illness is causing him unbearable suffering. There are rules and procedures that doctors must follow. They have to make sure the person understands their decision and that there are no other options. The process can take a long time, sometimes years. Joseph believes that having the option of a peaceful and dignified death is important. He wants to have control over how his life ends.

The Last Supper Project

When Joseph shared his decision, people had many different reactions. Some people understood and supported him. Others were sad and hoped he would change his mind. He even received some negative comments. But he also received many kind messages, including invitations to have dinner. This inspired him to start "The Last Supper Project," where he travels and shares meals with strangers. In the caption he explained, “‘The Last Supper Project’ is based on the Harvard Study of Adult Development which speaks to the importance of quality relationships and community as the greatest predictor for happiness. And I feel connecting this way around food as a great unifying vessel could be beautiful.”

The Last Supper Project is one of the longest studies, lasting for more than 80 years, done on adult development. In an Author Speaks edition of McKinsey & Company, the study’s director Robert Waldinger explained the study wanted to know what helps people have happy and healthy lives, even if they had problems when they were young. Most studies only looked at what goes wrong, but this one wanted to know what goes right. The study emphasizes that it is never too late for positive changes. People often believe they are too old or incapable of forming good relationships. They may think happiness is out of reach. However, the study has observed individuals who found happiness unexpectedly.

Joseph wants to connect with people and enjoy these moments while he waits for his euthanasia request to be approved. He sees these dinners as a way to find joy and connection in his final chapter. He still has bad days, but he finds comfort in these shared experiences.

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Fact Check: Top 5 Flu Vaccine Myths In 2025, Busted

Updated Dec 20, 2025 | 10:35 PM IST

SummaryWith flu cases rising worldwide in 2025, countries like the UK, US, and Canada are seeing higher hospitalizations linked to a new H3N2 subclade K variant. Experts say vaccines still offer strong protection through cross-immunity. Health and Me debunks common flu vaccine myths, stressing vaccination remains the best defense against severe illness.
Fact Check: Top 5 Flu Vaccine Myths In 2025, Busted

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Is 2025 the year of Flu? This is the right question to ask as we see so many cases of flu from around the world, worst hit countries remain UK, US, and Canada. The hospitalization rates have gone up. In fact Dr Wenqing Zhang, Unit Head for Global Respiratory Threats at the Department of Epidemic and Pandemic Threats Management of the World Health Organization said that this year is marked by "the emergence and rapid expansion of a new AH3N2 virus subclade". This new variant is called J.2.4.1 or subclade K. This was first reported in August in Australia and New Zealand and has since been detected in over 30 countries.

Amid this there are many myths that surrounds the flu vaccine, on whether it should be administered and if one can get a flu despite getting the jab. Health and Me breaks those myths for you.

The biggest misconception that surround the vaccine right now is its effectiveness, since it has been updated before the new strain or the subclade K/ super flu hit the population. However, Professor Antonia Ho, Professor and Honorary Consultant in Infectious Diseases at the University of Glasgow says, "The vaccine remains the most effective means to prevent disease. We still want to encourage people to get the vaccine."

When a new variant emerges, the flu shot can still offer what doctors call cross-protection. In simple terms, the antibodies your body makes after vaccination can recognize similar flu viruses and respond to them.

Also Read: 186 H3N2 Outbreaks As Hospitalization Rates Double On Canada

Here are the top 5 flu vaccine myths in 2025

Myth 1: Influenza is not serious, so I don’t need the vaccine

Fact: Flu is far from harmless. Each year, up to 650,000 people worldwide die from flu-related respiratory complications. Even healthy individuals can fall seriously ill. In some cases, flu can lead to pneumonia, sinus or ear infections, and inflammation of the heart or brain, especially in those with weaker immunity.

Myth 2: The flu vaccine can give me the flu

Fact: The flu shot uses an inactivated virus, which means it cannot cause influenza. Some people may feel mild fever, body aches, or tiredness after vaccination. These symptoms are short-lived and are simply signs that the immune system is responding.

Myth 3: The flu vaccine causes severe side effects

Fact: Flu vaccines have a strong safety record. Serious side effects are extremely rare. Guillain-Barré Syndrome, a condition linked to muscle weakness and paralysis, occurs in about one in a million vaccinated people, making the risk very low.

Myth 4: I took the vaccine and still got the flu, so it doesn’t work

Fact: Many flu viruses circulate each season, and vaccines target the most common ones. While vaccination may not prevent every infection, it greatly reduces the risk of severe illness and complications. It also helps protect people with vulnerable immune systems.

Myth 5: I am pregnant, so I should not get the flu vaccine

Fact: Pregnant women are strongly advised to get vaccinated because pregnancy weakens the immune system. The inactivated flu vaccine is safe at any stage of pregnancy and helps protect both the mother and the baby.

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Will The Old Flu Vaccine Protect You Against The New Subclade K?

Updated Dec 20, 2025 | 01:13 PM IST

SummaryAs H3N2 cases rise, concerns persist about vaccine effectiveness against the mutated subclade K or “super flu.” Experts say the seasonal flu jab still offers strong protection, especially against severe illness. Even with viral drift, vaccines provide cross-protection and remain the best defense against influenza A and B.
Will The Old Flu Vaccine Protect You Against The New Subclade K?

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While H3N2 flu cases are surging, one question that is being asked time and again is whether the old vaccines provide protection against this new variant. While the new strain of virus was detected after the vaccine had already undergone its update, the good news is that it still provides the best protection against the illness from H3N2 strains.

The real reason why concerns are prompted about the effectiveness of the seasonal vaccine is because the virus underwent more mutation than scientists expected over summers. This mutant is called the 'subclade K' or 'super flu'. While it is true that most cases this season are of the 'super flu' strain, experts say that the flu jab is still offering a strong protection.

How Effective Is The Flu Jab Against The New Flu Strain?

"The vaccine remains the most effective means to prevent disease. We still want to encourage people to get the vaccine," said Professor Antonia Ho, Professor and Honorary Consultant in Infectious Diseases at the University of Glasgow. Experts have stressed enough on the immunity that one can receive from the vaccine that that these flu jab remain the best defense against the flu, even though the current strain circulated may have drifted away from the strain included in this year's jab.

Data from the UK Health Security Agency (UKHSA) also show that vaccines is performing as expect, despite the emergence of subclade K.

How Is The Flu Jab Developed?

Every year, experts from the World Health Organization, the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, and other global health agencies closely track flu trends around the world. They study which strains are spreading and use that data to predict which ones are most likely to dominate the upcoming flu season. The annual flu vaccine is then designed to protect against three or four of those strains.

It’s also worth understanding that more than one influenza A strain usually circulates at the same time. So even if the vaccine is not an exact match for a newer H3N2 strain, it still protects against other common flu viruses, which matters, notes Stony Brook Medicine.

When a new variant emerges, the flu shot can still offer what doctors call cross-protection. In simple terms, the antibodies your body makes after vaccination can recognize similar flu viruses and respond to them. You might still get sick, but the vaccine greatly lowers the chances of severe illness, hospitalization, or worse.

The vaccine offers protection against both types of influenza, including A and B.

Also Read: The New Flu Strain Emerged Too Late For Vaccines, And It Is Already Causing Outbreaks

Is There Any Difference Between Influenza A and B?

Influenza A

Influenza A changes quickly. Its genetic makeup shifts often, which is why new strains keep emerging and why it can trigger large outbreaks. It usually shows up early in the flu season and has been responsible for every major flu pandemic recorded so far.

Influenza B

Influenza B is more stable and does not change as rapidly from year to year. It tends to appear later in the season, often peaking in late winter or spring. While it does not cause pandemics, it can still lead to serious illness, particularly in children and young adults.

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What Is The Normal Sperm Count To Get Pregnant? Expert Explains

Updated Dec 20, 2025 | 01:00 AM IST

SummaryIs there a normal sperm count to get pregnant? Discover what counts as a normal sperm count, how sperm quality affects fertility, and the lifestyle factors that can improve your chances of conception.
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When talking about fertility in routine practice, we usually refer to the World Health Organization’s guideline of roughly 15 million sperm per millilitre (and around 39–40 million total per ejaculate) as the lower boundary of “normal.”

But the count alone doesn’t tell the full story. The quality of sperm, their motility, shape, and the couple’s overall reproductive health are equally important. We got in touch with Dr. Meenakshi Priya, Clinical Director & Fertility Specialist, Nova IVF Fertility, Coimbatore, who told us more about the same.

What Is The Normal Sperm Count To Get Pregnant?

Dr Meenakshi said, “Think of sperm count like lottery tickets. More tickets (higher count) give you better odds, fewer tickets lower your chances — but even one well-functioning ticket (a motile, properly shaped sperm) can win.”

That’s why fertility clinics look at several factors: concentration, total number, progressive motility (whether sperm swim forward), and morphology (shape). The WHO manual provides the standard method and cut-offs used worldwide in labs, serving as the referee for semen analysis.

However, numbers matter clinically. Research over decades shows fertility starts to drop gradually below about 40 million/ml (or in older studies, 40 million total per ejaculate was a useful marker). The WHO threshold of 15 million/ml marks the lower edge of normal — values between 15 and 40 are a “grey zone,” where conception is possible but may take longer. So a man with 12 million/ml isn’t infertile, but the couple might need help like IUI or IVF depending on other factors.

But don’t get fixated on one number. A “normal” semen report is a combination of factors:

• Concentration ≥15 million/ml

• Total sperm count ≥39–40 million per ejaculate

• Progressive motility roughly >30%

• Normal morphology about 4% (Kruger criteria)

What Changes A Sperm Count?

Lifestyle and health have a big impact on sperm. Smoking, heavy drinking, extra weight, prolonged heat exposure (saunas, hot tubs, tight underwear), certain medications, recent fevers, and conditions like varicocele or hormonal imbalances can all lower the numbers.

The good news? Most of these are reversible. Dr Meenakshi said, “Quitting smoking, reducing alcohol, losing a bit of weight, avoiding hot tubs for a few months, and treating infections can improve sperm.” Remember, sperm take time to renew but it usually takes 2–3 months of healthier habits for improvements to appear in a report. Be patient; your body is making changes even if you don’t see results immediately.

When To Be Concerned And Consult A Doctor?

If semen analysis repeatedly shows very low sperm (oligozoospermia), no sperm (azoospermia), poor motility, or if a couple has been trying for a year (or six months if the woman is over 35) without success, it’s time to consult a specialist. One abnormal test isn’t the final word — tests are usually repeated, and a more thorough assessment may include hormone checks, ultrasounds, or genetic tests if needed.

Dr Meenakshi said, “Sperm count gives a headline, not the full story. It’s a useful screening tool, but fertility decisions are personal. If you’re concerned, get a proper semen analysis and speak with a fertility specialist — many fertility issues are treatable, and acting early makes a real difference.”

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