Source: Scene from Challengers
In recent years, our understanding of sexuality has evolved, introducing new concepts and identities that challenge traditional views. One such emerging phenomenon is symbiosexuality—a term gaining traction in both academic circles and popular culture. This new form of sexual identity is captivating the attention of researchers and the public alike, as it offers a fresh perspective on how individuals experience attraction and intimacy.
A recent study sheds light on this concept, prompting a reevaluation of how we define human connections and relationships.
Researchers at Seattle University have recently identified a new form of sexuality termed "symbiosexual". According to a study published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, symbiosexuality is defined as an "attraction to the energy, multidimensionality, and power shared between individuals in relationships."
This dynamic is often portrayed in television shows and movies such as the recent Hollywood star Zendaya's Challengers where a love triangle unfolds between actors Mike Faist, Zendaya and Josh O’Connor and other television shows like Gossip Girl.
Dr. Sally Johnston, an adjunct professor of anthropology and sociology who led the study, suggests that our understanding of sexuality may be more complex than previously thought. According to the study, individuals who identify with this concept are drawn to the energy shared between an existing couple.
The research revealed that a significant number of participants experienced romantic and sexual attraction to the "synergy" present in a trio.
“We need to rethink the nature of human attraction and desire as only one-to-one experiences,” she said.
Symbiosexuality represents a shift from focusing solely on physical attributes or personality traits to valuing the unique energy exchange between partners. This emerging identity is not just about who someone is but how they interact with their partner in a dynamic, almost symbiotic manner. Researchers are noting that this shift could have significant implications for how we view attraction and intimacy.
This phenomenon is being discussed extensively in both academic literature and mainstream media. For instance, how symbiosexuality is gaining popularity and changing the conversation around sexual identity.
Johnson delved further into her research to explore the concept of “unicorns” in polyamorous relationships. While the sexual dynamics often appear appealing, Johnson observed that the third party in these relationships frequently faces poor treatment, becoming objectified and marginalized.
Her insights were drawn from data in “The Pleasure Study,” which surveyed 373 participants regarding their sexual and gender identities. The study's results were predominantly skewed towards white, middle-class university graduates, with over 90% identifying as queer and 87.5% identifying as polyamorous.
“There is a diverse population of people who experience symbiosexual attraction, an attraction to the energy, multidimensionality, and power shared between people in relationships,” Johnson added.
She discovered that 145 participants reported experiencing attraction to couples as a whole, rather than to the individuals within the relationship.
In addition to redefining attraction, symbiosexuality also highlights the diversity of human relationships. Just as polyamory and monogamy offer different approaches to partnership, symbiosexuality presents a novel perspective on how people experience and express their desires.
Hayden, a participant in the study, confessed she found the “cohesiveness” in couples attractive.
“You feed off their energy, their attraction to each other … there’s an interplay between the couple,” she revealed. Another respondent, named Sage, professed their appeal of being symbiosexual.
“I also just want to be smack in the middle of that relationship. I would also like to be included in this relationship … I really think my ideal dynamic might be myself and a couple,” Sage said.
As research progresses, Johnson intends to delve deeper into the dynamics of this relationship type to provide the general public with a clearer understanding of this emerging sexual identity, particularly in relation to mental health and relationship satisfaction.
Comparing symbiosexuality with polyamory, for example, reveals intriguing contrasts and similarities. While polyamory emphasizes multiple romantic or sexual relationships, symbiosexuality focuses on the unique energy exchanged between partners, regardless of the number of relationships. Both concepts challenge traditional views and highlight the evolving nature of human connections.
“I hope this work will help reduce stigma in both monogamous and non-monogamous communities, while also broadening the understanding of desire in sexuality studies,” she added.
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Dr Sermed Mezher, a UK-based General Practitioner, best known for his educational medical content on social media shared a video on his Instagram of a seizure that could leave you dancing.
"Wakeful seizures like that are more common than you think," he says. "But how are they different to the dancing plague?"
He explains that dancing plague happened around 1518, when a woman named Frau Toffer started dancing uncontrollable on the streets and then eventually hundreds also joined her. They danced for days, and some of them actually died of exhaustion. There are multiple theories to it, including ergot poisoning. However, he says, "We need to remember that this population was riddled with starvation and diseases. They had seen multiple outbreaks of the black plague, so the most likely diagnoses is stress-induced mass hysteria or a type of stress-induced psychosis."
However, he notes that the video he is referring to is different. "What this person in the first video was experiencing were temporary abnormal movements while conscious, that might be classed as a non-epileptic seizure."
It is also known as functional seizures, which are episodes that look and feel like seizures caused by epilepsy However, they are not caused by abnormal electrical activity in your brain, but are a physical reaction of your nervous system to:
While the dramatic dancing may seem like you are "faking" it, but the seizures are real and the person who is experiencing do not have any voluntary control over these episodes.
This can also affect your emotional state, including your anxiety, depression and even your panic attacks.
These are caused by a mix of stress that affects your body, mind, and relationships. This is known as the biopsychosocial model.
Other things that may contribute include:
Furthermore there could be underlying mental health conditions that could trigger these seizures. The conditions include:
People who undergo these seizures may be more at risk of experiencing physical, sexual or emotional abuse or neglect, especially in their early years. They may have lived through a difficult or traumatic event, and may have or develop a chronic condition like chronic pain or fibromyalgia.
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A video that is making rounds on social media, shared by stand-up comedian Hasan Minhaj is a conversation between him and behavioral change expert Mel Robbins. The two dove deep into something that many families may also deal with but do not ever say : hoarding.
What started as a funny story about Minhaj's mother holding onto old VHS tapes turned into an emotional discussion about memory, loss, and the human need for control.
Minhaj said that his mom still has "VHS cassette tapes stacked up in the guest room", including the 1996 movie Dunston Checks In, which he loved as a child. "We don't even have a VHS player. My children won't watch VHS, I loved that movie in 1996, but I am 39 now, we gotta move on."
However, he shares that when he tried to throw it away, it led to what he described as "nuclear war". Robbins immediately pointed out why: "She has transferred her own emotional attachment to physical objects. It is not a cassette tape, it represents something else."
Robbins explained that hoarding often is not about the objects themselves, but the about being emotionally stuck on it. She noted that "there's a very close connection between depression, OCD, and hoarding. You're dealing with a mental issue that manifests in things." This is why clutter becomes a coping mechanism, this is a way to stay in control, when other areas of life feel uncertain.
When Minhaj mentioned that his mom keeps even outdated software like Windows XP CDs, she said that the reason she is holding on to all these is because he does not call her enough. "If you do not call enough, the things remind her of you... it might remind her of a time when you lived at home, when you were younger. If she holds on to it, she stays in control."
Robbins also told Minhaj, that the habit of his mother hoarding "is not driving her crazy", but it is driving him "crazy".
As per the NHS UK, the reason why someone begins hoarding could be a symptom for another condition. It could be well associated with severe depression, psychotic disorders, such as schizophrenia, or obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD).
As per a 2015 study published in the Journal of Clinical Psychiatry, hoarding behaviors occur in a variety of neuropsychiatric disorders, including OCD, schizophrenia and dementia. The act of hoarding is defined as a pattern of persistent difficulties with discarding personal possessions, even those with no clear value. In Minhaj's mother case, it is the VHS cassettes, and software CDs.
As per Harvard Health, it affects approximately 2 to 6% of the adult population, across genders. However, hoarding is more common in an individual who live alone. Hoarding also occurs three times as often in older adults as in the general population.
Cognitive behavioral therapy or CBT is an option that can be considered. It focuses on addressing cognitive distortions related to fear of discarding and urges to acquire, while the behavioral component focuses on sorting through and discarding materials in a systematic and structured way.
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Where fat accumulates in the body can be far more important than simply shedding pounds when it comes to lowering diabetes risk, a new study published in Nature suggests. For people with prediabetes, which is when blood sugar is higher than normal but not yet at diabetes levels, targeting belly fat specifically may have a greater impact than losing weight overall through lifestyle changes.
Halting prediabetes is critical, as nearly 70 percent of individuals in this category eventually develop diabetes. Reversing prediabetes also protects against complications like heart disease, kidney problems, and nerve damage.
In the study, two groups of participants had similar overall fat levels but differed in how fat was stored. Those who lost more belly fat, or visceral fat, over a year were able to reverse prediabetes, while those who didn’t reduce abdominal fat did not reach healthy blood sugar levels.
Researchers from the University Hospital Tübingen in Germany found that focused lifestyle changes could bring prediabetic individuals into remission even without major weight loss. This remission was associated with a roughly 70 percent reduction in the risk of developing Type 2 diabetes over the following decade.
Among 1,105 participants with prediabetes, the study examined 234 individuals who did not lose overall weight. Of these, 51 achieved prediabetes remission after a year of targeted lifestyle interventions, while the remaining 183 did not reach healthy glucose levels.
“Weight loss remains the primary goal for people who are obese. However, reversing prediabetes can also happen without major weight loss, especially when lifestyle interventions focus on improving diet quality, increasing physical activity, and building muscle while reducing fat,” says Dr. Anoop Misra, chairman at Fortis C-Doc Hospital for Diabetes and Allied Sciences.
He adds that for Indians, reducing both subcutaneous abdominal fat and visceral fat is key for better metabolism. These changes, paired with increased muscle mass and improved functional capacity, enhance insulin sensitivity and help maintain long-term blood sugar control.
Belly fat, or visceral fat, releases inflammatory substances that interfere with insulin, the hormone that moves sugar from the blood into cells. To compensate, the body produces more insulin, which can overwhelm the pancreas and raise blood sugar. Excess sugar is often stored as fat around the abdomen, which is why even individuals of normal weight with a protruding stomach are at higher risk of diabetes.
“Diet composition matters most lower carbs, higher protein, and healthy fats, all within a controlled calorie range, can help reverse prediabetes even without significant weight loss,” says Dr. Misra. Good carbohydrate sources include whole grains, fruits, legumes, and non-starchy vegetables, while healthy fats come from nuts, seeds, olive oil, and fatty fish.
Physical activity also plays a crucial role. Combining resistance training, such as weightlifting at least twice a week, with aerobic exercises like walking, running, or swimming, is effective at reducing visceral fat. Adequate sleep around seven hours per night is also essential to keep blood sugar levels under control.
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