Men's Mental Health Week 2025: This Is What Happens When You Teach Boys To Feel, Not Just Fight

Updated Jun 12, 2025 | 04:00 AM IST

SummaryWhen boys are taught to express their feelings not just suppress them, they grow into men who form healthier relationships, communicate better, and break free from the damaging cycle of emotional repression.
Men's Mental Health Week 2025: This Is What Happens When You Teach Boys To Feel, Not Just Fight

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Men's Mental Health Week is a movement that highlights the unique mental health challenges men face. It encourages open communication, emotional connection, and breaking the stigma over vulnerability. Through early intervention, emotional literacy, and support structures, the week seeks to empower men towards prioritizing mental health without shame.

We make men out of boys to be tough, bold, and brave, but at what expense? Studies reveal that stifling emotions early in life can have long-term effects. Anxiety, depression, addiction, and anger disorders tend to stem from childhood environments where emotions were discouraged. Yet, the world still encourages boys to be emotionally stoic, confusing silence with strength and holding things in as bravery.

Men's Mental Health Week highlights these problems, providing an international forum to break down the cultural, psychological, and emotional barriers that isolate men from themselves and from others. This year, the theme is concise but powerful: emotional fluency is strength. With mental health specialists, educators, and parents uniting, a message emerges clearly—change begins early. And it starts not only by instructing boys what not to feel, but by demonstrating them how to feel, express, and process what's inside.

When Boys Are Taught to Suppress, Men Struggle to Cope

A lot of adults nowadays are products of a childhood in which emotional expression was discouraged—particularly among boys. The "man up" culture instructed them to swallow their tears, muzzle their fears, and cover up their insecurities. But emotions don't go away just because they're suppressed. Unaddressed emotions seep through later in life as anxiety, irritability, depression, drug and alcohol abuse, or aberrant relationships. Men who weren't instructed in emotional skills become men who chase emotional anesthetization because they never learned to feel safely to begin with.

One of the most prevalent emotional coping strategies for men is blame—an outward deflection of internal conflict. When painful emotions such as fear, sadness, or shame are not worked through internally, they start to spill over. Rather than labeling or working with such feelings, men tend to resort to blaming others: their girlfriends, their coworkers, or even themselves.

Blame is an easy release valve—a means of pushing off discomfort instead of dealing with it. It tastes invigorating for a moment but has permanent harm. In one anecdotal example, a man describes how his unaddressed anger ultimately poisoned the people he loved the most. It wasn't until he noticed this pattern and the hurt behind it that healing and authentic connection started for him.

Why Emotional Awareness Isn't Soft

Educating boys about emotional awareness isn't about making them "soft." Instead, it makes them better decision-makers, more accomplished relationship-builders, and more resilient grown men. When men know what they feel, they gain the power to decide how to react, rather than blindly reacting.

This emotional intelligence does not only assist men in dealing with conflict—it assists them in flourishing. Whether selecting a profession that would value their principles, establishing supportive partnerships, or being emotionally available dads, emotional fluency opens doors, instead of closing them.

Teaching Boys the Language of Emotions

So, how do we start? Body awareness is the foundation. Emotions appear initially in the form of bodily sensations—tightness in the chest, lump in the throat, flutter in the belly. It is important to teach boys to identify these warnings and link them with emotional events.

Then parents and teachers can help enable safe emotional expression. When a boy tells you how he's feeling, don't correct him or tell him to "toughen up." Instead, respond with curiosity and compassion. Ask questions such as, "What do you think made you feel that way?" or "What do you need in this moment?" This both affirms his experience and builds his emotional vocabulary.

Along the way, this establishes trust—with oneself and others. Someday, when these boys become men and find themselves with other men—maybe in locker rooms, workplaces, or group texts—they won't tumble into emotionally dysfunctional patterns such as teasing, denial, or aggression. Instead, they'll have the skills to respond in ways that demonstrate emotional maturity.

Restoring masculinity doesn't involve abandoning it—it involves redefining it. The most powerful men aren't the ones who never weep or get wounded. They're the ones who notice when they have, own up to it, and learn from it.

True masculinity, in the best possible way, is based on empathy, responsibility, and self-mastery. When boys are instructed that emotions aren't vulnerabilities but indicators—like hunger or tiredness—they no longer fear exposure and begin to cherish authenticity.

Parents play a critical role here. Modeling emotional openness, apologizing when you’ve overreacted, or simply sharing your own feelings openly can set a powerful example for your sons. Remember- when boys feel safe being emotionally honest at home, they carry that strength into every part of their lives.

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UK Teen Survives Septic Shock After Doctors Misdiagnose Stomach Bug Symptoms

Updated Apr 15, 2026 | 12:00 PM IST

SummaryFelicity-Jo had been born with congenital adhesions, or internal scar tissue. The adhesions caused a total bowel obstruction, which was eventually followed by an infection and a life-threatening sepsis.
UK Teen Survives Septic Shock After Doctors Misdiagnose Stomach Bug Symptoms

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Felicity-Jo, a 13-year-old girl in the UK’s Lancashire, has survived a life-threatening bout of sepsis and two weeks of induced coma, after her symptoms were initially dismissed by doctors as a stomach bug.

In early February, Felicity-Jo suffered vomiting and abdominal cramps, and was admitted at the Royal Blackburn Teaching Hospital where the medical team administered intravenous fluids. They discharged her the following day as the teen girl showed temporary improvement, and attributed her condition to gastroenteritis, also known as a stomach bug.

"They [gave] her some fluids to stop the dehydration, and she seemed to like come around and seemed to feel better — the pain eased and then she took to small sips of water,” Natalie-Anne Rowlett, her mother told the BBC.

"The doctors said they thought it was gastroenteritis or a stomach bug going around. They had said they wanted to take her for a scan, but they didn't do it because she perked up."

What Happened To Felicity-Jo?

While Felicity-Jo returned to her normal activities, her health suddenly deteriorated weeks later. On March 15, the teen collapsed in extreme pain and was admitted to the ICU at Burnley General Teaching Hospital. Here, the surgeons discovered she had been born with congenital adhesions, or internal scar tissue.

The adhesions caused a total bowel obstruction, which was eventually followed by an infection and sepsis, her mom told the BBC.

“The main symptoms were abdominal pain and persistent vomiting. It’s frightening how quickly things progressed from what seemed like a typical upset stomach to a life-threatening situation," Rowlett was quoted as saying to PEOPLE.

After undergoing two emergency surgeries, including the removal of a portion of her bowel, Felicity-Jo was transferred to the pediatric intensive care unit at Royal Manchester Children's Hospital. She remained on life support for 14 days while battling the infection and subsequent blood clots.

"Sepsis develops so quickly, and I want others to be aware. I know she'll come through. She's a fighter," Rowlett said, according to the BBC.

How Is Felicity-Jo Now?

After being fitted with a stoma bag and diagnosed with two blood clots four weeks after the health scare, Felicity-Jo finally took her first steps in almost a month.

Felicity-Jo has “managed a smile,” which “melted” their hearts, wrote Rowlett on the GoFundMe page, which the family started to raise funds.

Rowlett confirmed that her daughter was being moved from the PICU to another ward in the hospital.

“She still has a long road of recovery, stoma care, and rehabilitation ahead, but moving to the ward is a giant leap forward,” Rowlett added.

Rowlett is now urging others to be aware of the symptoms of sepsis, telling them to "trust their guts" if something “doesn’t feel right,” the BBC reported.

Congenital Adhesions: How It Can Lead To Bowel Obstruction?

Abdominal adhesions are bands of scar tissue that form between the organs in the belly and pelvis. The scar tissue mainly forms between loops of the small intestine, but can also form between an organ and the wall of the abdominal cavity.

When the condition is present from birth, it is called congenital adhesion. Congenital bands arise from abnormal adhesions of folds in abdominal organs that form during the first eight weeks of pregnancy.

Adhesions are the most common cause of a small bowel obstruction — a medical emergency caused by complete or partial blockage in the intestines. With obstruction, food, liquid, air and waste can’t pass through the intestines and can cause:

  • Severe abdominal pain.
  • Cramping.
  • Bloating.
  • Nausea and vomiting.
  • Abdominal distension (when your abdomen swells outward).
  • Obstipation (being unable to pass gas or poop).
Although congenital bands that lead to intestinal obstruction are extremely rare, if not identified early enough, they can lead to dangerous and often life-threatening situations.

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India’s 8th Poshan Pakhwada Targets Early Nutrition to Boost Brain Development In Children

Updated Apr 9, 2026 | 07:30 PM IST

SummaryThe nutrition campaign will run from April 9 to 23, and focuses on improving the nutritional and cognitive health of young children under six years. The for Poshan Pakhwada 2026 is “Maximizing Brain Development in the First Six Years of Life”.
India’s 8th Poshan Pakhwada Targets Early Nutrition to Boost Brain Development in Children

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India's Ministry of Women and Child Development today launched the 8th edition of Poshan Pakhwada, under the flagship Poshan Abhiyaan mission to fight against malnutrition and improve the country's nutritional status.

The nutrition campaign will run from April 9 to 23, and focuses on improving the nutritional and cognitive health of young children under six years.

"A well-nourished child is the foundation of a strong nation. Poshan Abhiyaan is not just a government programme, but a people’s movement to ensure holistic nutrition for every mother and child,” said Prime Minister Narendra Modi, while underscoring the importance of nutrition.

"This year's theme focuses on laying a strong foundation for our children's bright future. This campaign will not only strengthen the resolve for a malnutrition-free India but also promote public awareness and community participation," said WCD Minister Annpurna Devi, in a post on social media platform X.

Poshan Pakhwada 2026: Theme

The theme for Poshan Pakhwada 2026 is “Maximizing Brain Development in the First Six Years of Life”.

It recognizes that early childhood—particularly the first 1,000 days—is critical for brain development, physical growth, and overall well-being.

Scientific evidence indicates that over 85 percent of brain development occurs by the age of six, underscoring the importance of optimal nutrition, responsive caregiving, and early learning.

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The key focus areas under this year’s theme include:

  1. Maternal and Child Nutrition – Promoting optimal nutrition during pregnancy, exclusive breastfeeding, and age-appropriate complementary feeding.
  2. Early Stimulation for Brain Development (0–3 years) – Encouraging responsive caregiving and early learning interactions.
  3. Play-Based Education in Early Years (3–6 years) – Supporting holistic development and school readiness.
  4. Role of Parents and Community in Minimizing Screen Time – Promoting healthy habits and active engagement.
  5. Strengthening Anganwadi Centers through Community Participation – Enhancing infrastructure and service delivery through Jan Bhagidari and CSR.

Poshan Pakhwada 2026: Activities

During the Pakhwada, activities will be organized across States and Union Territories through Anganwadi Centers, with participation from mothers, caregivers, families, community institutions, and local bodies.

These will include Poshan Panchayats, awareness sessions, early stimulation activities, play-based learning initiatives, and campaigns promoting healthy lifestyles and reduced screen time among young children.

Through Poshan Pakhwada 2026, the Ministry aims to further strengthen the Jan Andolan by reinforcing that nutrition, care, early learning, and community participation together lay the foundation for a healthy, educated, and empowered India.

Also read: Longevity: How Eating Right For A Long Life Is An Everyday Endeavor

What Is Poshan Abhiyaan

Poshan Abhiyaan was launched by the Prime Minister on March 8, 2018, in the Jhunjhunu district of Rajasthan. The focus of Abhiyaan is to emphasize the nutritional status of adolescent girls, pregnant women, lactating mothers, and children from 0-6 years of age.

Poshan Pakhwada serves as a key pillar of this movement by driving awareness, behavioural change, and community mobilisation at the grassroots level. The major objectives include:

  • Prevent and reduce stunting in children (0- 6 years)
  • Prevent and reduce under-nutrition (underweight prevalence) in children (0-6 years)
  • Reduce the prevalence of anaemia among young Children(6-59 months)
  • Reduce the prevalence of anaemia among Women and Adolescent Girls in the age group of 15-49 years
  • Reduce Low Birth Weight (LBW).

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Busting Newborn Care Myths In India: What Every New Parent Needs To Know

Updated Apr 9, 2026 | 12:30 PM IST

Summary Babies should be breastfed within the first hour of birth (Golden hour) right in the labor room! The yellowish first milk (colostrum) is packed with antibodies and nutrition. Early feeds can prevent low blood sugar levels, and build immunity.
Busting Newborn Care Myths In India: What Every New Parent Needs To Know

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The birth of a baby is a joyous occasion, accompanied by celebrations as well as well-meaning advice from friends and family. "Don't feed for 24 hours!" "Give honey first!" "Discard the first milk!" These traditional and generational beliefs leave new mothers confused about what is appropriate for their baby.

As a neonatologist with years of experience, I have seen how these myths can harm the delicate newborns. Let us separate fact from fiction with simple, but evidence-based truths.

Myth 1: Wait Before First Feed

Traditional Belief: Many families delay breastfeeding for hours—waiting for an auspicious time, a particular relative, or to follow traditions and customs.

Fact: Babies should be breastfed within the first hour of birth (Golden hour) right in the labor room! The yellowish first milk (colostrum) is packed with antibodies and nutrition. Early feeds can prevent low blood sugar levels, build immunity, increase the mother’s milk supply, and lead to bonding between the mother and the newborn.

Myth 2: Honey or Jaggery First

Traditional Belief: Elders give honey, jaggery, or butter at birth for strength and good virtues.

Fact: Short-cuts are dangerous! Stick to mother's milk only. Anything else can cause infections (botulism with honey) and delay colostrum administration.

Myth 3: Throw Away Colostrum

Traditional Belief: "First milk is dirty—discard it!"

Fact: Colostrum is liquid gold! It is a natural vaccine, full of maternal antibodies and high in proteins. Discarding it deprives the baby of natural immunity.

Myth 4: 40-Day Lockdown

Traditional Belief: Keep mother-baby indoors for 40 days to avoid colds.

Fact: Fresh air and sunlight are rich sources of oxygen and vitamin D. Confining them in dark, stuffy rooms increases the risk of post-partum depression in the mother. Take short, safe outdoor trips, avoiding windy weather.

Myth 5: Gripe Water and Janam Ghutti

Traditional Belief: Essential for digestion, teething, and excessive crying.

Fact: Avoid completely as the ingredients are not standardized or regulated. Contents vary wildly—many contain alcohol, opioid derivatives, or bacteria, causing loose stools and sedation. Breast milk is the panacea.

Myth 6: Kajal Makes the Eyes Beautiful

Traditional Belief: Surma/kajal improves eyesight and makes the eyes bigger

Fact: May contain lead that causes eye infections, allergies, and lead poisoning if used excessively

Myth 7: Babies need water before 6 months.

Fact: Breast milk or formula is 88 percent water and meets the water requirement even in hot months. Early water intake increases the risk of sodium imbalance (hyponatremia). Start water in a sippy or cup, after 6 months, with complementary foods (150-250 ml water split into multiple times).

Myth 8: Sneezing = Cold

Traditional Belief: Any sneeze means an upcoming cold.

Fact: Newborns sneeze to clear mucus— a sign of healthy airways! Consult a doctor if it is accompanied by fever, cough, or runny nose.

Myth 9: Mother's 'Cold' Foods Harm The Baby

Traditional Belief: Curd, rice, and ice cream can cause cold or colic in the baby.

Fact: The temperature of the maternal diet does not influence the breast milk temperature or quality, so no cold food bans!

Myth 10: Teething Causes Fever/Diarrhea

Traditional Belief: Fever and loose stools indicate tooth eruption

Fact: Red flag! These signals indicate infections from dirty objects that babies put into their mouths during the mouthing phase of development. See a doctor immediately.

Myth 11: Protruding Navel = Doctor Error

Traditional Belief: Caused by excessive pull on the cord during delivery.

Fact: Commonly due to lax abdominal muscles. It usually resolves by one year of age. No tapes/coins are needed. Consult a doctor immediately if the swelling does not retract or becomes red.

Myth 12: Warm Head = Fever

Traditional Belief: A warm forehead means fever

Fact: Normal newborn temp is 97.6-99.5°F. The head feels warmer due to increased blood flow. Check the armpit if concerned.

What to Do?

Tips For Parents:

  • Embrace science over superstition.
  • Trust your pediatrician and not any advice.
  • Verify advice: Does it align with the guidelines of scientific bodies.
  • Join lactation support groups.
  • Be aware of red flags like fever, lethargy, poor feeding, and excessive irritability.
  • Seek expert opinion when in doubt.
  • Your baby's first 28 days are critical and determine their lifelong health, so get them right.

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