“It would be so much better if I could get some work done while talking to my friends and catching up.” It had been a while since I saw my friends, and while I was thinking about what we can do when we meet, I had this thought. Afterall, what is a person supposed to do when one conversation ends? Sit in silence? That was a foreign concept to me, as nothing makes me more anxious or awkward than having nothing fill the silence. While parents often urge their children to spend time without their phones, most of them believe it is harmless to check a message between conversations or fidget with their phones like opening to check social media and closing it just as quickly. To find why a lot of young adults and teens do this, researchers did a study that found an interesting fact about Generation Z and how they view conversations. A new study found that most young adults in their 20s have a hard time paying attention when talking to someone in person. They often reach for their phones in just over two minutes. The survey looked at 2,000 people aged 18 to 28 and showed how using phones too much is affecting how long they can focus, how they act in real life, and how they feel mentally. Why Can’t Gen Z Focus On Simple Conversations? The research, done by AXA UK for their yearly Mind Health Report, said that almost 40% of these young adults feel a really strong need to look at their phones while talking to someone. The things that distract them the most are checking messages, looking at social media, and watching videos on YouTube. They also said that alerts from calls, WhatsApp, and social media are the hardest to ignore. The study also found that almost 4 out of 10 young people think talking to people in real life is "boring." Most of them said they have trouble just dealing with real-life talks. They often use their phones to get away from what's happening, especially when they're at parties or hanging out, talking to their friends, and even when they're talking to their moms and dads. For some of these young people, being so dependent on their phones is a big deal. More than one-third said they feel really uncomfortable when they don't have their phone nearby. Also, almost 3 out of 10 said that being without their phone makes them feel anxious or nervous. Using Too Much Phone Leads To Loss In Focus 22% Gen Zs said that excessive use of phones makes it hard for them to pay attention and get things done. The study also showed that social media is a big reason why they don't feel good mentally. 33% of them said that comparing how they look to other people online makes them feel bad about themselves. For another one-third, looking at social media right before going to sleep makes them feel worse mentally. The CEO of AXA UK & Ireland, Tara Foley, said she is very concerned about these results and how using phones might be hurting young people, “Phones give us a hit of dopamine which is hugely powerful, especially on younger minds that are still developing. It’s unsurprising so many parents are worried about the impact phone use could be having on their children.” Why We Must Teach Good Phone Habits Dr. Papadopoulos, Psychologist and Broadcaster, said this could mean having times in the morning and evening when they don't use their phones, turning off some of the alerts that pop up, or doing things every day that don't involve looking at screens and where they are really paying attention to what's happening around them. Tara Foley added that she hopes this study will make everyone work together to find ways to help young people be stronger and feel better mentally.