Many times in our lives, we feel we are stuck in problems that seem unsolvable. There are certain stressors that, when thrust upon us simultaneously, prompt us to think we are in some kind of limbo. But one solution to this is to compartmentalise this situation. Here Are 5 Ways To Compartmentalise Problems To Solve Them1. Ask questions designed to change your perspective. The list of questions could include: If this turned out to be not a big deal, how would I wish I had coped? What would I wish I did more of? Less of?If this problem were magically resolved right now, how would I act today? How would I think and feel? What type of peace would feel more available to me? What would I do differently?The opposite: If I were 100 per cent sure this problem wasn't going to get any better in several months or more, how would I adjust?These questions can help you visualise how not putting your life on hold and reclaiming your peace might look.2. Distinguish between compartmentalisation and avoidance. Sometimes we feel like we're avoiding, when what we're doing is healthy compartmentalisation. Avoidance is when you're not taking your available steps to manage the problem. Compartmentalisation is when you're taking those steps but need to pause during various waiting periods. Although these scenarios are very different, they can feel quite similar. You might feel on edge, frustrated, anxious, and exhausted.To reassure yourself you're on the right track, gather data to prove to yourself that you're compartmentalising, not avoiding. Break it down and define each. You can even spell it out depending on your particular circumstance: Compartmentalisation looks like a, b, and c, whereas avoidance would look like x, y, or z. 3. Take at least as much rest as you usually would. When we're in high alert mode, it's tempting to remain there— but you need rest to be in a good (ideally, fresh) state when it's once again time to work on the problem. Put yourself in the best possible frame of mind to respond when the hot potato is passed back to you.4. If your routines are disrupted, take the opportunity to do something positive you wouldn't usually do. We often feel fearful when our good habits are disrupted. For example, I had to skip the gym today to go to the police station and fill out a report after a hit-and-run (I'm fine!). Our good habits anchor us, so disrupted routines on top of stress can be extra hard psychologically. When your routines are interrupted, take it as an opportunity to either rest or do something you'd usually put off. 5. Give yourself the pep talk you need. It's easy to start emotionally spinning out when stress lands at your doorstep, especially when you can't clear away the mess right away. It can make you spiral into believing you're doing a poor job of adulting, feel like you can't protect yourself and your loved ones adequately, or make you feel very unsupported (by institutions or society in general). In other words, it can make life feel very harsh. Remind yourself what about the situation you're handling well, even if you're not handling it perfectly. Try to view the situation in a way that helps you feel closer to others than alone (experiencing these types of events is universal).