When Sherry Pollex was diagnosed with stage III ovarian cancer at just 35 years old, she was handed a bleak prognosis—two years to live, at most. Rather than retreat into fear or resignation, Pollex found purpose. She launched a website devoted to educating women about ovarian cancer symptoms and promoting integrative approaches to treatment. She lived nine more impactful years, embracing life and using her journey to bring attention to ovarian cancer, holistic healing, and the importance of early detection.Initially, Pollex believed she might be pregnant—her stomach was bloated, a symptom she misread as a sign of new life. But her world changed when doctors discovered 40 to 50 tumors and she was forced to undergo an emergency surgery and a radical hysterectomy that eliminated her chances of becoming a mother.Despite her personal loss, she transformed her pain into purpose. Pollex became a beacon of strength, not just surviving but thriving as a vocal advocate for women’s health. She championed integrative cancer treatment, combining conventional medicine with holistic practices to support emotional and physical healing.Sherry passed away at 44, but her legacy endures through the lives she touched. "I often wonder if that’s my purpose here," she once said. “Maybe I’m supposed to go through all this so I can pave the way for other women.”“I have always been an optimist, I have never looked at a glass half-empty,” she shares. Her resilience has not only defied the odds medically, but has sparked a much-needed dialogue around an often-ignored cancer affecting thousands of women globally.Her journey reminds us that while cancer can take a life, it cannot take the impact of a life well-lived. Let us not forget the lessons she gave us — of resilience, purpose, and the urgent need for awareness and early intervention in ovarian cancer.Why Ovarian Cancer Is So Dangerous?Ovarian cancer is among the most lethal gynecologic cancers, largely due to its stealthy onset. According to Dr. Vandana Jain, Senior Consultant and Head of the Department of Gynecologic Oncology, “About 70–80% of cases are diagnosed at advanced stages, making prognosis extremely poor, with long-term survival ranging between 15% to 30%.”Unlike breast or cervical cancers, ovarian cancer has no reliable routine screening method. The US Preventive Services Task Force (USPSTF) continues to advise against general population screening due to the lack of survival benefit. Symptoms such as bloating, pelvic pain, difficulty eating, and urinary urgency often mimic benign conditions, causing diagnostic delays.The good news? Newer approaches like symptom-triggered testing using CA-125 and ultrasound can detect some cases earlier or with lower tumor burden—giving more women a fighting chance.What is Altruism?Altruism, by definition, is the selfless concern for the well-being of others. It’s a trait Pollex embodied long before her diagnosis—raising funds for pediatric cancer through the Martin Truex Jr. Foundation. Ironically, her dedication to children with cancer foreshadowed her own battle.After her diagnosis, instead of withdrawing, Pollex doubled down on advocacy—educating women about diagnostic tools like the OVA-1 blood test, speaking before Congress to improve access to oral chemotherapy, and mentoring fellow patients through letters and social media.A growing body of scientific literature suggests that such selflessness may be biologically beneficial. A 2003 study of over 1,500 adults in Detroit found that providing support to others reduced mortality rates more than receiving support. Another study by Massachusetts General Hospital reported that giving help was a stronger predictor of mental health than receiving it.How Emotional Strength is Linked to Survival?Could altruism impact disease outcomes? Experts say yes. “Mental resilience and a positive emotional response in patients can influence not just quality of life, but potentially even survival,” says Dr. Jain.This isn’t just about being upbeat—it’s about purpose. Patients who find meaning beyond their illness, like Pollex has, often experience lower stress, stronger immunity, and improved mental health—factors that can all contribute to longer survival.Even within oncology wards, mental health professionals notice this pattern. As psychologists put it, “We frequently observe that patients with a history of purpose-driven lives fare emotionally better during the most trying times, which has downstream effects on their physical resilience.”Pollex didn’t just share her story—she created platforms for others to share theirs. From highlighting fellow survivors on SherryStrong.org to helping a newly diagnosed woman find her own oncologist through shared networks, her outreach continues to ripple outward.The power of storytelling in medicine cannot be underestimated. It fosters community, reduces isolation, and amplifies awareness—especially for diseases like ovarian cancer that often lack mainstream attention.Moreover, Pollex’s ability to remain active in public life—traveling across the country, speaking at events, and fundraising—models what it means to live fully despite chronic illness. “You could be sick tomorrow and I could be well tomorrow—you never know what life is going to bring you. So living each day to the fullest is my motto,” she said.Early Signs of Ovarian Cancer You Must KnowSymptom-triggered testing for ovarian cancer has been endorsed by various cancer organisations like American cancer society and Society of Gynecologic Oncology. Dr Jain says, "Though ovarian cancer was considered a silent killer, some symptoms if of new onset, coexistent with other symptoms, present almost daily for a few weeks and considered severe than expected, should be evaluated and can increase the chances of detecting." As Dr. Jain emphasizes, recognizing the subtle symptoms of ovarian cancer can be lifesaving. The disease may be considered a “silent killer,” but studies show that symptoms precede diagnosis by 3 to 36 months. When evaluated in time, 25% of high-grade serous ovarian cancers can be detected early or with a smaller disease burden—improving outcomes significantly.Key early symptoms to look out for:Persistent bloatingPelvic or abdominal painFeeling full quicklyUrinary frequency or urgencyIf these symptoms are new, frequent, and more severe than usual, seek medical evaluation and ask about CA-125 and pelvic ultrasound tests. Major trails done in the past have failed to show any survival benefit with routine screening.The US Preventive Services Task Force (USPSTF) 2018 recommendation statement continues to recommend against screening for ovarian cancer for asymptomatic women who are not known to have a high-risk hereditary cancer syndromePatients identified with a high-risk family history should be referred to a genetic counselor and genetic screening for a possible hereditary cancer syndrome ( BRCA1, BRCA2, Lynch syndrome, and other mutations). Patients who test positive for one of these syndromes may benefit from interventions such as risk-reducing bilateral salpingo-oophorectomyWhile science continues to uncover the intricate ties between emotional resilience and physical health, stories like Pollex’s offer compelling evidence- living for others might just help you live longer.Dr. Vandana Jain is a Senior Consultant and Head of Department of Gynecologic Oncology at Rajiv Gandhi Cancer Institute & Research Centre in Delhi, India