Cancer diagnoses is one of the most devastating news that one receives. The future after the revelation may seem bleak, but as many cancer survivors have said, one must power through and try their best. During these times, you lean on your close ones and friends for help, even if it is just for emotional support. Angela Torres always looked out for others, and helped them as best she could, until it was her who needed the help. Angela is a busy mom with three kids and a full-time job. She also runs two food banks in the Bronx, New York City. She took over this important work from her mother, who also believed strongly in helping the community. However, when Angela found out she had breast cancer, it made her rethink everything about herself. Angela said that before her diagnosis, she was always the one taking care of everyone else. She admitted, "I didn’t want anyone to think I was weak." Finding a Lump and Diagnosing Cancer At 39, Angela felt a small lump in her breast. Tests showed it was stage 0 breast cancer, also called carcinoma in situ. This meant it was very early, and she didn't need more treatment. This experience made Angela realize how important it was to get regular mammograms and checkups. She also encouraged her loved ones to do the same. A few years later, Angela's sister had a mammogram, and doctors wanted to carry out more tests because they suspected something serious. The results, fortunately, showed no serious signs. This scare made Angela's sister urge her to get another mammogram sooner than planned. Angela remembered, "She kept saying, ‘I just have a bad feeling.’ So I moved my mammogram appointment up six months, mostly just to get her to quit talking to me about it.” Angela clearly remembers getting the call with the results of that mammogram. She was ironing her son's shirt for his prom the next day. Her doctor told her they had found several tumors that she would never have been able to feel on her own. More Serious Diagnosis and a Change in Plans Angela had another surgery to remove the tumors and take samples from her lymph nodes. Sadly, the tests showed that the tumors were cancerous. Doctors found different kinds of breast cancer cells. Most were hormone-positive, but one was triple-negative breast cancer (TNBC). Because TNBC can be more aggressive, Angela's treatment plan had to change. She would need surgery, chemotherapy (chemo), and radiation. Treatment was a long and difficult process. After surgery, Angela had four months of chemo. Then, she had a few weeks to recover before starting daily radiation for several weeks. Her doctor explained that the side effects of chemo and radiation can build up over time. Angela wasn't sure what that meant for her life. But when she started radiation and experienced more side effects, she understood. Some of the side effects from chemo were still bothering her, and the radiation added to them. How did Community Support Helped Her Prognosis? Even though the treatment was hard, it worked. Angela believes that her positive attitude played a big part in getting through it. She also learned to accept help from others during her treatment. This was new for Angela, and she said it was the hardest thing to adjust to. "I just didn’t want to feel weak. I didn’t want people to give me that ‘awww’ look. I wanted to be superwoman and just power through, but you have to allow the help in," she explained. American Cancer Society (ACS) explained that emotional support is crucial for better chances of survival during cancer. A strong emotional support helps people going through cancer have a more positive outlook, better changes in the cancer, and reports show that it helps them better their life quality immensely. Small things like making brief calls, ending the call with ‘I’ll be in touch soon’, calling when it is suitable for them, returning their messages as soon as you can, checking in with their caretaker to know if they need anything. True to her nature, Angela strives to help more people, she has spoken at events, at interviews, and with friends and family. Her goal is to use her experience to help save lives and talk about cancer honestly. She thanks ACS for their help and contribution, and gives people hope for the future and love “Nobody wants to go through this, but they make you feel like they're with you for the fight. That means everything.”