Receiving a cancer diagnosis changes a person’s life in many ways. The impending sense of doom, the feeling of an uncertain future as well as the constant stress about how this disease is affecting your loved ones are just a few of the things they experience. It may be fiction to us, but it is someone else’s reality. Avi Grant's life took an unexpected turn on August 19, 2021, when she received a diagnosis of stage III cervical cancer. At the time, she was a newlywed, thriving in her career, and looking forward to starting a family. But that isn’t all. There was a difficult diagnosis wait for her, what's worse is that it could have gone unnoticed if it wasn’t for not giving up. Search for Answers Avi's health journey began in September 2019 after she had a very hard miscarriage. Besides worrying about having children, Avi just felt like something wasn't right with her body. She felt like her doctors weren't giving her enough clear answers, even though she kept asking questions. So, she decided to switch to a new women's doctor. Her new doctor quickly got to work, doing many tests. Soon, they found what others had missed: cervical cancer. Avi used an app to check her medical records, so she actually saw the cancer diagnosis online before her doctor even called her. She recalled seeing the words "squamous cell carcinoma" and knew right away it meant cancer. Although she was shocked and was grasping the reality of her diagnosis, she did not waste any time and jumped right away into her treatment. She wanted to know what she needed to do next to fight this. What is Squamous-Cell Carcinoma? Cervical cancer is a type of cancer that starts in the cervix, which is the lower part of the womb (uterus) in women. Most cervical cancers are a type called squamous-cell carcinoma. These cancers are often caused by certain types of the Human Papillomavirus (HPV), especially types 16 and 18. According to StatPearl it is the fourth most common cancer in women worldwide, coming after breast, lung, and bowel cancer. Can It Be Prevented? Cervical cancer is actually easy to prevent. This is thanks to a test called the Pap smear. This test can find abnormal cells that could turn into cancer before they become a serious problem. If caught early, these bad cells can be removed. However, in many poorer countries, this cancer is still very common. This is because they don't have widespread screening programs like the Pap smear. Tough Treatments Avi had a very strong treatment plan. This included many medical procedures, then chemotherapy and two types of radiation – one from outside her body and one from inside called brachytherapy. The brachytherapy was especially hard for her. It caused her a lot of physical pain and emotional stress because of how it's done and its side effects. Brachytherapy works by putting a device with radiation right inside the body, very close to the cancer. This helps target the cancer cells directly while trying to keep healthy cells safe. For Avi, this meant a large device with radiation was put into her vagina, and she had to stay completely still while it was in place. She wants other women to know exactly what to expect with this treatment. She believes that if women understood the process and saw the equipment beforehand, it could help them feel less scared and worried. Even with all the pain and stress, Avi kept going with amazing strength. Cancer's Impact on Feelings and Mind Avi's fight against cancer wasn't just about her body; it also deeply affected her mind and feelings. After her treatment finished, she found herself struggling with depression and anxiety. These were feelings she hadn't expected or known much about. She said, "I didn’t feel like myself." Even her husband noticed, asking if she wanted to go out, but she just wanted to stay home. That's when she realized something was wrong. She got professional help and learned how important it is to take care of your mental health. She feels this part is often forgotten during and after cancer treatment. She wants people to talk more about mental health, reminding everyone that "It’s OK not to be OK.” Finding Strength in Others and Speaking Out Throughout everything, Avi refused to let cancer make her feel negative. She looked for help and found comfort in groups like the American Cancer Society (ACS). Then, she started to speak out herself, sharing her powerful story in news interviews and at community events. The ACS really helped her recovery. They connected her with useful resources and gave her chances to share her story and raise awareness, like at local Relay For Life events. She felt how powerful it was to share her experience and connect with other people. This also helped her find support groups and tools for life during and after treatment, which she feels is often ignored. She said, "Nobody talks about what happens after cancer. It’s like, ‘Congratulations, you did amazing. Now go live life.’ But I had to figure out how to live again." Avi wisely puts it, "Cancer changes you. Everyone expects you to go back to the way you were, back to normal, but it isn’t like that. I’ve changed. Cancer changed me.”