For new parents, a baby’s cry can feel like an unsolvable riddle. Is it hunger, fatigue, discomfort, or something more complex? While the sound of a crying baby can stir panic and helplessness, researchers say that it’s actually the first language a newborn uses to communicate. Learning to interpret these cries can build trust, reduce frustration, and strengthen the parent-child bond.The Language of CriesAccording to research by Priscilla Dunstan, babies across the world, regardless of culture or language, produce nine distinct sounds in their cries, each indicating a specific need. These are not random wails but physiological reflexes. For example, when a baby is hungry, the tongue touches the roof of the mouth, creating a “Nèh” sound. Identifying these subtle cues early can prevent discomfort from escalating into distress.The Nine Cries and What They MeanNèh – “I’m hungry”This sound mimics a sucking motion. It’s usually the first cry parents hear, especially in the early weeks when feeding is frequent.Èh – “I need to burp”A short, jerky sound created when air is trapped. If you hear this after feeding, hold the baby upright and pat gently on the back.Aoh – “I’m sleepy”This cry often comes with yawns and a wide-open mouth. It signals that your baby needs rest soon.Éérh – “I have a stomach ache”Hoarse, prolonged, and strained, this cry is linked to gas or colic. Gentle massage or movement may help soothe your baby.Héh – “I’m uncomfortable”A soft 'h' sound may point to issues like a dirty diaper, awkward position, or rash. A quick check can resolve it.Guèn – “I’m teething”Often accompanied by drooling and gum rubbing, this sound means your baby may need a teething ring or gentle gum massage.Lelaol – “I need company”A softer, almost meowing sound—your baby simply wants interaction. Responding to this helps foster emotional security.Nah – “I’m thirsty”A gentler version of the hunger cry, often heard in warmer weather or when breastfeeding intervals increase.Ouin – “Everything feels wrong”A full-body cry when a baby is overwhelmed. Cuddling, rocking, or just holding them can bring comfort.Beyond Sounds: Emotions And Connection View this post on Instagram A post shared by Dr Yasmin Pilgrim (@dr_yas_pilgrim)]]>While deciphering these cues helps meet basic needs, it also supports a baby’s emotional growth. Babies experience emotions intensely, and crying is their only outlet. Your calm presence helps regulate their emotional storms, almost like serving as their temporary “prefrontal cortex”, the part of the brain responsible for emotional regulation, which develops later.Should You Always Respond?Some parents wonder if responding to every cry will spoil the baby. Experts say that in the early months, every cry deserves attention. It isn’t about temperament, it’s communication. As the baby matures, short self-soothing intervals can be introduced. Still, your consistent presence helps develop secure attachment and emotional resilience.